Originally Posted by
BiaBinta
Hi am supposed to start my 2 year photography course in a few days and i am really excited i can't wait. Problem is the only campus is 1200km away from home. I am 20 years old and the only child so my parents are not keen. They are afraid that i will fail to survive on a waiters income. I also can not find a place to stay close enough to campus,i do not have a drivers license so that is also a problem. I was looking forward to the experience but my parents robbed me of that with all the worries and insecurities. My boyfriend stays close to campus and we have been in this long distance relationship for a year. They think that this has a lot to do with him but it doesn't, this has been my dream for 12 years. I am really good at what i do and would just like to have something to show people when they ask me if i am professional.
Many students survive just fine on a waiter's income, as long as the tuition isn't too expensive. (If your tuition is expensive, apply for grants and loans!) For inexpensive transportation, get an inexpensive (used) bike and a good backpack to carry your books (and camera). Once you start classes you may also find a classmate who lives closer to campus who needs a room-mate and be able to move closer to campus.
After you start school, check in with a school counselor. Explain your parents worries and ask the counselor for advice on how to proceed, what steps and cautions you should take to help ensure success. If possible, make regular appointments to check in with the counselor during your first semester. This will help you gain confidence that you are on track, and you can use your counselor's advice to help answer your parents and soothe their worries.
You didn't say where you are located, I might be able to give more tips if I know where you are going to school.
Good luck with the photography!