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    Jan 17, 2009, 04:28 PM
    Ive lost my crush
    I have this crush on a guy.
    I'm 15, he's 20, nothing was obviously ever going to happen. But I really like him.
    I know him through instrument lessons I go to.
    There was never any mention of a girl at all. Even on his internet blogs.
    Then I find a comment on one of them saying congratz on getting engaged but its from ages ago.
    I know it was never going to happen, I wouldn't ever date anyone that old.
    But he was like the guy a fancied for ages.
    It just feels so depressing.
    I talked about him a lot. It's like a big part of who I am has been taken away from me.
    I know I'm being stupid.
    But dangg... it freaking hurts.:(
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    Jan 17, 2009, 04:38 PM

    You're 15, he's 20. He's obviously engaged as you say. You say that you know nothing would ever happen (as it shouldn't) then why does the dynamic of the relationship have to change?
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    Jan 17, 2009, 04:48 PM

    I remember my first crush it was when I was 14 and it was on my headmaster.
    God I dreamed away the hours with him in mind !
    I excelled in all the lessons I had with him !
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    Jan 17, 2009, 06:59 PM

    Girls go through this. There's nothing wrong with it. Trust me all you need to do is go out more, get into sports, go on dates with guys around your age, have fun. Trust me you will find a worthy guy who meets your standards.
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    Jan 18, 2009, 07:40 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by MarkwithaK View Post
    You're 15, he's 20. He's obviously engaged as you say. You say that you know nothing would ever happen (as it shouldn't) then why does the dynamic of the relationship have to change?


    The dynamic of the relationship has to change because he's not just some guy anymore, he's someone else guy. I feel like bad person obsessing over another girls fiancé.
    I wish I never found out.
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    Jan 18, 2009, 12:43 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by IheartEdward View Post
    I know it was never going to happen, i wouldnt ever date anyone that old.
    Based upon this comment and other you made then it is clear that this guy was just a social acquaintance. No need for that to change.
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    Jan 18, 2009, 01:02 PM

    Actually, you would feel awkward if he's 15 and YOU'RE 20. It's normal for guy to be a few years older then his girlfriend.
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    Jan 18, 2009, 01:19 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by survivorboi View Post
    Actually, you would feel awkward if he's 15 and YOU'RE 20. It's normal for guy to be a few years older then his girlfriend.
    Yeah, I know, but its me that's a bit young. In a few years time it okay but right now. But its doesn't matter, he isn't single.. I should forget about it.
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    Jan 19, 2009, 01:01 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by survivorboi View Post
    Actually, you would feel awkward if he's 15 and YOU'RE 20. It's normal for guy to be a few years older then his girlfriend.

    No, it's simply, ILLEGAL.
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    Jan 22, 2009, 03:22 PM
    Indeed.

    Well, I'm trying to forget him, not go out with him.
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