[lilxavy007]

:confused: hello my name is John Cannon and I have been dating my girl friend for seven months straight. We have had a couple arguments and fights but we always work out our problems.But there is a frined of her's that's a boy, who used to have a thing for her way before me and her started dating and they became best friends instead of dating. I admitted to my girlf friend that I had a jealous problem because I didn't feel comfrtable about this best friend of her's but I gotten over it. He never did try coming on to my girl friend because he doesn't look at her like that anymore, that's what he claims. The best friend of her's just broke up with his girl friend and is now single. Ever since then the day after it feels like my girl friend is acting funny towards me a little. She doesn't respond to my texts fast like she used to. I know she wants to help her best friend out because he is hurt but I don't know what to think. I know she loves me but sometimes I get a little feeling inside that she has feelings for her friend. I trust her with all my heart but its just a little mind conscience thing inside my head.

[ZoeMarie]

Go with your gut, that's the best advice I can give you. Talk to her about how you feel and see how she responds.

[Romefalls19]

C-o-m-m-u-n-i-c-a-t-i-o-n! Talk to her about it, if two people in a relatonship cannot communicate its like sailing in a sinking ship, stays afloat for awhile but not going to last.

[a la king]

You need to talk to her about it. Starting good communication now will help you when you're older.

[SimpleguyJoe]

That's the only thing you can do, as the others said just talk about it and evaluate the answer you get and go from there. Ignoring the problem is not going to fix it. Because sometimes your getting that weird feeling in the pit of your stomach for a reason, because it might be true. So you have to be ready to accept that fact as well.

[talaniman]

Is there anything else you have to go on?

[Flyflyaway]

Go with your GUT! Communicate openly with her, don't acuse! See how she reacts. Keep the lines of commuincation open is A MUST!

[NItEMArE129]

Dude, the only thing you've told us is that you feel like this because she's not responding to your texts fast enough. RELAX! BREATHE! And reassess.

Do you trust her? Do you trust her to tell you if she's no longer interested? Is this something you feel you have to know?

If it's no to the first 2 or yes to the second you should go talk to her. At any rate, you should talk to her anyway. It's the same as Romefalls said. COMMUNICATE!!

[ZoeMarie]

Nitemare brings up a good point about trust. If you don't trust her, that's enough to show that maybe you should re-evaulate this whole situation.