[jaimataki7]

I am going to marry a girl who liked her college fellow. He talked to her family also for marriage but her father refused. From the day I came into her life she is not talking to that fellow. They were talking on fone for last 3 years almost as a friend only before I met but now she loved me a lot. I am sure that she don't have any bad relationship with him in past but I am mentally very disturbed by thinking about her past when I asked her she told that she just liked him not loved but may be she is telling due to fear of break up of our relationship before marriage. I am in tension what to do please advice ASAP.

[Fr_Chuck]

The past is the past, You have to trust. IF you can not trust then you don't know her well enough to get married

[smartam]

Live in present... and have courage to confront to her past. If u really love her... then accept her with all her times... even past... she has told you all about that... or u have discovered...
Whatever may be the case... beleive her and have faith

[talaniman]

Control your fear, don't let your fears control you.