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Synnen · Feb 2, 2009, 10:46 AM

Originally Posted by Altenweg

Roxy, age is just a number, maturity is what counts. :)

Have to disagree, slightly---Age is a number, ATTITUDE is what counts.

chrissymarie · Feb 2, 2009, 10:53 AM

Originally Posted by Synnen

Chrissy, honey--you must be young still.

REAL men don't only look at looks. Looks are a dime a dozen, frankly.

I'm ALSO a "middle-aged" (in my 30s) woman, and I betcha I could out-do most 20 year old women with "looks"----to REAL men.

Boys, of course, are attracted to looks over anything else.

And---what the OP was asking is if good looking girls get more dates than other girls.

My answer to that depends on whether she's dating boys or men.

OMG! EVERYONE i AM NOT SAYING CONFIDENCE IS NOT AN ATTRACTIVE QUALITY FOR GODS SAKES. i'M SAYING THAT YOUR PHYSICAL APPEARANCE IS WHAT USUALLY FIRST ATTRACT A MAN. SO YES... GOOD LOOKING GIRLS DO GET MORE OFFERED MORE DATES THAN OTHERS WHICH DOESNT MEAN THAT THEY GET ALL THE GOOD GUYS TOO...

kctiger · Feb 2, 2009, 10:58 AM

Originally Posted by chrissymarie

OMG! EVERYONE i AM NOT SAYING CONFIDENCE IS NOT AN ATTRACTIVE QUALITY FOR GODS SAKES. i'M SAYING THAT YOUR PHYSICAL APPEARANCE IS WHAT USUALLY FIRST ATTRACT A MAN. SO YES... GOOD LOOKING GIRLS DO GET MORE OFFERED MORE DATES THAN OTHERS WHICH DOESNT MEAN THAT THEY GET ALL THE GOOD GUYS TOO...

I sense a little anger in this post... perhaps we need to have a group hug ;)

There are way too many hormones in this thread... perhaps it is best that I leave...

Synnen · Feb 2, 2009, 10:59 AM

Really? It's ONLY physical appearance that first attracts a man?

Then those women that are overweight would ALWAYS be single. The women that have acne or acne scars would be shunned by men. The women that have had a baby and have less-than-perky boobs and a tummy, completely forgotten about by guys.

If looks were even CLOSE to the primary (or most important) way to attract a man, then anyone over 21 would be screwed, because that's what the media portrays as "beautiful"--the skinny, well-endowed, porn-star women.

roxypox · Feb 2, 2009, 11:00 AM

Lol I'd have to say that both maturity AND attitude ;)

Christiee_xxo · Feb 2, 2009, 02:49 PM

You should find out what his intentions are - like is he looking for a one night stand or a relationship? You should think about what would happen if you did sleep with him... and what could happen. This guy could just be looking for sex, so watch your back.

chrissymarie · Feb 2, 2009, 02:51 PM

He means good bye. I highly doubt he will want to be friends. I think he was looking for a booty call and scared him away with the baby talk.

Justwantfair · Feb 2, 2009, 03:05 PM

You need to raise the standards of what you are looking for in a man. Reading through some of your posts you are very concerned with sleeping with men before you establish a relationship which will do little to raise respect for you.

The "baby" line is a form of game playing. If he is just after sex, stop seeing him for your own self-respect and don't worry about him any longer. If this is the guy with a "girl friend" already then once again you need to raise your own self-respect in order to get respect.

It would be wise to not date anyone and stop chatting with random men on the internet. Start establishing yourself so that you know who you are. By knowing who you are and what you want in a relationship you will better be able to interpret what men you are interested in and also be able to weed out the bad seeds before getting too involved with them.

Klaipeda · Feb 4, 2009, 07:00 AM

Originally Posted by chrissymarie

he means good bye. I highly doubt he will want to be friends. I think he was looking for a booty call and scared him away with the baby talk.

I don't know what future will bring but next day we still communicated on the net.He wrote me again and we started chat... So he is not so scared then:confused:

Klaipeda · Feb 4, 2009, 07:06 AM

Originally Posted by Christiee_xxo

you should find out what his intentions are - like is he looking for a one night stand or a relationship? You should think about what would happen if you did sleep with him ... and what could happen. This guy could just be looking for sex, so watch your back.

He said that he wants onlly sex and nothing serious, I tried to chat him up why the sex is only joy in life and he in anger blured out that all women just used him to get to his money and wanted to do things for them.. He said he did not had a time for himself, as he owns a car, his ex girlfriends were usung him for their own purposes... He said he was really fed up with the askings and beggings to do that and that for them he could not find time for himself, and if he told them that he could not do something for them they woul get angry. So, he said that he learned the lesson to be selfish like women do..
I don't want just give up on him because he was hurt in the past, even though we will communicate on the net, I wish him luck, I am not the person to throw away friendships, I am the wait and see person

Klaipeda · Feb 4, 2009, 07:10 AM

Originally Posted by chrissymarie

he means good bye. I highly doubt he will want to be friends. I think he was looking for a booty call and scared him away with the baby talk.

So you think that, I don't care if it happens as life goes on and I will find other guys... For one reason I don't think he wouldn't want to be internet frineds with me, because its so easy just to chat and nothing more, and because he does not have many friends at all in reality and on the net..

Klaipeda · Feb 4, 2009, 07:20 AM

Originally Posted by Justwantfair

You need to raise the standards of what you are looking for in a man. Reading through some of your posts you are very concerned with sleeping with men before you establish a relationship which will do little to raise respect for you.

The "baby" line is a form of game playing. If he is just after sex, stop seeing him for your own self-respect and don't worry about him any longer. If this is the guy with a "girl friend" already then once again you need to raise your own self-respect in order to get respect.

It would be wise to not date anyone and stop chatting with random men on the internet. Start establishing yourself so that you know who you are. By knowing who you are and what you want in a relationship you will better be able to interpret what men you are interested in and also be able to weed out the bad seeds before getting too involved with them.

He knows my standarts, you talking if you never met a man who would not want to have sex... At the beginning of the e-communication, 7 months ago he even did not mention any sex related words,what's the point to wait for such a long time to offer to meet up if he wants sexonly? (I have men writing contstantly to me who want to meet up after 3-4 letters and all you can see from the meetings that tey don't mind to get you into the bed... this is sad but true everyday events.. ) and I even thought that he maight be a gay... Only when we got a bit personal, he started to apen up.. But I made clear that I am not going to have sex, he does know that.. It's not easy to find a man who you like , you talking like men that you like are everywhere... I found other qualities in him that I do like, -like he is not able to let his work coleagues down, he keeps me mood up if I am sad, he makes me lough tc. So why because of him wanting to have sex with me ( which is normal for a man who did not slept with woman for one year) should be so scaring and offensive to me? Maybe just nice talk to let him know me better would do the wanders? If not, we just stay e- pen pals.:). I JUST WANT TO KNOW FOR MY FUTURE RELATIONSHPS THE REAL REASON BEHIND THE WISH TO HAVE SEX WITH ME..

roxypox · Feb 4, 2009, 04:42 PM

Well, iyt sounds as if the guy has issues himself, and maybe he what he is despearate for is an honest woman. And a friendship between the two of you seems like a far better idea then just jumping in the sack (unless both of you want to do that)

And he did seem to give you a fair-enough answer when you asked and that's good. So I say, just keep a freindsship with the guy and go with the flow. If it turns out to be nothing, then its nothing.

Klaipeda · Feb 4, 2009, 05:11 PM

Originally Posted by roxypox

well, iyt sounds as if the guy has issues himself, and maybe he what he is despearate for is an honest woman. and a friendship between the two of you seems like a far better idea then just jumping in the sack (unless both of you want to do that)

and he did seem to give you a fair-enough answer when you asked and thats good. so i say, just keep a freindsship with the guy and go with the flow. If it turns out to be nothing, then its nothing.

That's sounds more real to me. Thank you:)