He claims we are dating but not boyfriend girlfriend kind of deal..
Sounds like he was clear to me, and is free to do as he pleases,
as are you. You're the one who is waiting around for him, so I suggest you back off, and be less available, and be single as he is.
You should really have other things in your life, besides waiting for him.
Dating is not an exclusive relationship. Why are you ignoring what he has honestly, and straightforwardly, told you?