Recently single and finding it hard to open up to the next person.
In June of this year my boyfriend of just over a year broke up with me although the break was not fully made until August. I feel like I am over this person and would like to see someone new but at the same time I like being by myself. I work nights so I find it quite hard to socialise regularly. Overall I feel pretty happy and content but there are those times when I would like to have companionship. I have had one or two opportunities lately to become more acquainted with guys who seem pretty nice, but when I was around them I felt uncomfortable with anything too physical and later I would feel annoyed that I hadn't just gone with it. I realise I am being a little contradictory here but basically I think I'm in a once bitten, twice shy type of demeanour and would appreciate some advice on this. I'm wondering if I should try to push through my current cautiousness or ride it out and take things easy for a while.
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