[DDLM55]

K, so Christmas is coming and my girlfriend won't tell me what she wants for Christmas. Whenever I ask her she just says "oh, nothing" or "I dunno" Its getting kind of frusturating not knowing what to get her. I know everyone says to get a gift from the heart, but that's a hard gift to think of... I can't ever think of anything special. She loves cats, dance, clothes, make up,. she's a cheerleader, so she also loves to look good and have fun. I don't even know where to start looking. Any ideas anyone? :confused:

[NItEMArE129]

gift cards!! When in doubt, just give her some cash, but gift cards are better because they require a little more sincerity. Look at what brand clothes she wears the most and buy the gift card for that store. Make sure to get a really nice cardholder though ^^

[xoxaprilwine]

Haha, what hjpan says is true; she wants a surprise. I really do not suggest gift cards because their extremely impersonal and they say "I don't know what you want nor do I care to spend the time on finding something for you...so here you go, knock yourself out". Also, you don't want her to know how much you spend either. You should know her better then most people so be creative (you can ask her friends too by the way). Girls generally like to get things like, jewellery (nice bracelet but this can be very personal and expensive), lingerie (not a good idea but a nice silk pajama set with some slippers and a robe is ok), perfume (only the oil based perfumes like Chanel), a day at the Spa (pampering is always great), theater/concert tickets and maybe some Christmas trinkets (like a stalking full with some chocolate and/or candy, Christmas sox, ordiament, lottery games... I don't know this is an endless list and inexpensive... but fun). I like to get really nice bath stuff too... but maybe next time your at her house in her bathroom you can see what she likes because every woman has her sent and her preference too... some more picky then others but I am sure she will love whatever you get her. Have fun shopping!

[SimpleguyJoe]

Haha get her a box wrap it and give it to her on Christmas. When she opens it and finds nothing in it she will be amazed beyond any other gift you could give her! Then give her a card telling her that you loved her so much that you wanted to buy her everything but you could not come up with the money so she will have to settle for going on a date with you to the mall. Where you can set a amount of cash (depentant on your budget) for her to go on a shopping spree with you. Even 100$ goes quick in a mall... So make sure you spend lots of time doing other stuff that's more bang for your buck like a movie and other low cost for more time ratios.

Be creative! Have a fun time doing something that you planned out for her, dependent on her likes.