[greeneyedbaby]

So for the past year I have been on and off with this guy. For the most part he is a pretty good guy. But we have had issues. In apirl I found out that I was pregnant and had a miscarriage. When I told him he really didn't care about anything except the fact that I was a good thing he wasn't going to be a daddy. He also chooses to play a video game over hanging out or even talking to me. But when he is attentive and caring its good. But it's a pattern. He's caring nice and attentive. Then he only wants to hang out to have sex then he ignores me for a few days. Is there a reason for this or am I just wasting my time?

[ZoeMarie]

If I were you I would be gone already. I haven't personally had a miscarriage, but I have a couple really close friends that have. If he can't be there for you through something like that then you can do better. I can't believe how selfish he is, looking at it like "at least I won't be a daddy." You should probably tell him you don't want to have sex with him anymore too, since that could lead to babies that he clearly isn't ready for.

[wolfgangqpublic]

He is extremely immature. He will not change this so long as he is in a relationship with someone that puts up with it. Even without, it will take him time on his own to move past it. This has run its course.