No feelings of pleasure during sex.
I am a 22 year old woman who just had sex for the first time 2 weeks ago. My boyfriend is extremely caring and gentle and does nothing wrong that I can figure out. Yet, I find no pleasure in sex. We talk about everything, and last night was the 8th try. As you can notice I've been counting, simply because it has been horrible. Last night was the first time that it did not hurt or cause me discomfort after the first minute or so.
He will perform oral on me until I am nearly the point of climax before we even try intercourse, and while that seems to make me more relaxed and the process easier, it still does not give me any sense of gratification and I am not even aroused when he is finished. I was not pressured into sex, I wanted to give my virginity to him because I love him. I just do not understand this issue. My libido is perfectly healthy, and I know my own body fairly well, sex aside.
Has this ever happened to anyone else? Any suggestions? I'm starting to feel like there is something wrong with me.
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