[surfskate7000]

basically to savce everyone time, my girlfriend broke up with me 3-4 months ago for someone else who she thought "walways cared about him" ever since then she knows how I feel and we talk almost everyday, some days she's nice others she's just a so I don't really know what to do, she wants me out of her life but I keep holding on cause I still think me and her should be together but she insists we always fight and what not.

^^thats a really really really short version of what all happened.

[Godwillhelpu]

If you really care for her, let her go, and watch that is when she will come back to u,
Long as you chase after her she will turn to the other! Good guys always winn

[stevetcg]

If she wants you out of her life, get out of her life. If she changes her mind, she'll let you know.

[TOTALREASON]

Don't even begin to understand what she is thinking,impossible!! Just be patient and don't rush or pressure her, like the other guys said, above me, if she decides to still like you, after awhile cause the new guy bails or doesn't work out, then you'll be there to take her back and it was meant to be. If you chase her, or beg her , or pressure her in anyway, they will run away forever. They get scared every time. Something about the being desperate that turns them off completely. Good luck bro, hope you find happiness soon!!

[TOTALREASON]

"and that was totalreasons two cents"

[xxariesxx]

I read your other post too.

You just need to let this girl go. You told her how you feel, she knows it, she has made it clear how she feels too. She's interested in someone else for a reason, and it sounds like you are a support structure. Don't put yourself in that position to only be the back-up comfort to her current situation because you'll never get out of that.

It is pointless to wait around for someone to want to be with you again; it may never happen!
My boyfriend of 5 years and I broke up a month ago. I still want to be with him. But I am NOT going to wait around for him to change his mind.

My point is it's a waste of your and her time to wait around like that. Why don't you put all of that energy into meeting other people and other interests or hobbies?

[NItEMArE129]

There's no point wondering why. But you need to get out of her life like everybody said. Ask her if there was any other reason you guys broke up. If not, then accept the fact that maybe you two just weren't meant to be. If there is, keep it in mind next time. And then let her be. Changing yourself is much more attractive than begging her to accept your flaws. YOU are the only one you can change, so get to it ^^