[funkii]

Okay, there's this guy that I dated for about a year. We never became boyfriend and girlfriend... he was never "ready." Now a year later he tells he doesn't want to see anymore. He just wants to be friends. A few days later I found out he got a 17 year old girlfriend. He's 21 am 23. He slept with someone else while we were "dating." That's what I heard. He told me before that he would never sleep with anybody but me. I trusted him. I'm a very forgiving person. That's my problem. So the problem is that he wants to meet up and talk. I told him that there's not point in talking that we should go our ways. It was really hard for me to do that but I had too. He was treating me like a fool. He wants to meet up and talk. And I don't know if I should. I was wondering if I should give him a chance to speak. Please help me out!

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[Eileen1218]

In your question you answered your own question. I think you're absolutely correct for recognizing the fact that he has already made you a (fool.. in your words) Personally I don't think he deserves another chance to talk to you... "He wants his cake and eat it too".
I hope this will help you... be strong and follow your instincts .
:)

[kctiger]

Yep. You already answered your own question. You go eat with him, and you are only playing into his hands. You can't fix stupid... get rid of this guy and move on with your life. The more you talk to him or "meet" up with him, the harder it will be. He isn't worth your time. Tell him to keep dating high school girls, they seem to be at his maturity level.

[Romefalls19]

Move on, find someone who will treat you how you want to be treated and not settle for less than what you deserve