Honestly, this to me seems to be a bad situation for your friend. If she is even considering this, then there is some doubt in her mind about the relationship and that is not a good thing. Now that this has even been an idea to concsider, it will be difficult for him to see the stability in the relationship, or at least it would be for me. Sure, she may realize that he is the one she really wants in the end, but if that is what she is hoping for, then why put what she has at risk. This will be HE! For him, in my opinion. Obviously, this is going to have to be a break up, but the worst part is that she basically wants to have her cake and eat it too. Doesn't seem fair to him in any way or even logical to me. Either way though, the outlook isn't good for your friend, considering she has already thought about wanting to do this, along with everyone that is surrounding her.
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