[babyshooter11]

OK so what is that you really look for in a girl? I'm not talking about a nice body or pretty face or anything along the line of that. I'm talking about what makes a girl irresistible personality wise? Like is it sexy if a girl is smart, funny, tom boyish, girly, I mean what is it?? I don't understand. Please help!

[NItEMArE129]

There's no formula. It depends on the girl and who she is. And it depends on the guy and what he finds attractive, what he hates, and what he would be able to live with. You can't ask for a general opinion for all guys.
It's the same for girls though. Imagine if we asked you what every single girl on the planet wants in a guy. Could you tell us without leaving a single person out?

[smitttyx2]

For guys its like love at first sight usually its not complicated if u have that glow then we notice u

[Clough]

Hi, babyshooter11!

I'll agree that there's no set formula. However, if I and a woman have some common interests that we both share, that's usually one of the things that can help an attraction to take place.

Water seeks it's own level, it's a basic law of physics, and, in my observation, it's also the same with people.

Thanks!

[mikedem7]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder

[perplexed1]

Here's my list for what would really turn me onto a woman personality-wise:
1) Intelligence (even more so if she's smarter than me haha)
2) Confidence/Independence (she knows what she wants to do / has plans for the future, isn't shy, not overbearingly independent)
3) Different (something makes her different from the crowd)
4) Her hobbies align with mine (like doing outdoorsy activities in my case)
5) She can be silly / goofy (can make me laugh)

I personally think the biggest two for me are intelligence and confidence. That way I know she won't be dependent on me in the relationship and she'll bring something new, valuable and interesting to the table. I'm also a fan of mystery... I love figuring out new things about people, so someone with a deep/complex personality definitely intrigues me.

[rockerchick_682]

I think this answer depends a lot on the age of a guy, but people in general are attracted to confident, humorous, and easy-going people.

[blfabila5]

I think what attracts I guy first is the way she looks. Then he starts talking to her to see if she is interesting like her personality. If He does find her interesting then he will keep in touch to learn more about the girl and make sure she isn't just a pretty face. All guys are different also so it depends on what they are looking for in a relationship. One might like an aggressive girl and one might not. One might like smarts and one might not. And the list goes on... It's hard telling. I say just be yourself and if he likes you for who you are then he will stick around. Don't change for a guy just to make him like you either. Good Luck.

[carmex]

No doubt the single most important quality is self confidence. If you believe you're hot. You're hot. If you believe men are attracted to you, they are. There are many times when a much more attractive person will get passed over in favor of a less attractive person who is happy, confident and secure with herself.

Believe in you, and others will too.

[Shorn9]

Confidence, Intelligence, funny, easy going, independent... that's just for me... other guyz r different.. It really depends on the guy not some set fomula