[Strungalong]

Where to begin.

About 7 months ago I had broken up with my girlfriend and had been "playing the field" when one night drunk I met this girl I'd see with a group of females I know. She's really shy but absolutely stunning.

So after month we speak and get close, then after like 3 months I imply dating and she ignores me. This has happened a few times when it comes to asking for a relationship ad very lately I heard news she likes me. But she flirts with my best friend. By like putting comments like "Carls Dirty" in her msn name, Implying they have been talking dirty.

I am a jealous type and this really s me off. But my best friend protests he's kidding and when I ask her she's makes it out like its not there.

What do I do with this girl I adore?

[Thorby]

Sorry mate but I think she's playing you and your best mate off against one another she obviousley loves the attention she is getting from the two of you. You sound like a decent guy I'm sure you could do better hun x

[Strungalong]

I know what you mean, In a none brag way I am a well known person and since I took interest she has become like pretty popular.
But I try to act like I don't care she always takes the bait but if I speak to other girl she gets mega jealous and try s to make me jealous.
I don't understand!

[Oneoffew]

It sounds to me like both of you are trying to play games with each other. Just speak and be honest and direct with her. Simply tell her that you really have strong feelings for her, and tell her that it hurts you when she does some of the things she does.

[strong__dan]

I think you need to tell her how you feel, and if she still keeps on doing what she is doing, and doesn't want to date you then she is obviously not worth your time!!

[lmnotok]

Yeah, just ask her!

She played games since she wasn't sure if you like her or not, so just say what you have to say to her, see what happens.

[talaniman]

You give her far too much attention, and she gives you nothing, so leave her alone, and you won't be caught up in her games.

How can you adore someone who doesn't return the feelings? That's not healthy.

[chuff]

I was just about to disagree with everybody but Tal stole my thunder. She is seeking attention and you are giving it to her, instead of telling her your feelings you should be ignoring her, because wasting your time is exactly what she expects, so take that from her.

[LifeChangesMan]

I concur, she's seeking attention and playing with both your minds. Just don't provide attention and see what happens. Or simply approach her seriously about it and talk to her.