[Bekster88]

Me and my husband have been together for about two years. I'm 20 and my husband is 23. My husband has always been somewhat financially irresponsible, hot tempered, and needy. I was always able to deal with these things despite what my friends say, because I love him dearly and I've always been a strong person. Things didn't really start to catch up with me until the pregnancy. Also adding that he recently let his friend move in with us despite our financial difficulties. I find myself resenting him very often because of the irresponsible things he does, which leads to us fighting a lot. I'm constantly afraid that I won't be able to provide a good future for my unborn son, because of his stupidity. I don't want to divorce him but I often find myself thinking divorce is the only solution. What should I do?

[Justwantfair]

Try counseling, you are both young with plenty of room to grow and a child that will be dependent solely on you. It is fair to note that a new child is a huge responsibility and probably hard for your husband to face, but once the miracle is here you may see him mature on his own.

[ZoeMarie]

In addition to what justwantsfair said, since his friend is living there, make him pay rent. It would probably help your financial situation.

[Fr_Chuck]

Yep, friend out is my idea, tell hubby he goes or you do, go to a friend or somewhere if you have to.