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    Nov 1, 2008, 09:39 PM
    Constantly angry and depressed
    Hi I am 31 years old with a good education but no job.Two nice , healthy kids a very loving husband and good sex life... but I am constantly irritated, angry and always on the edge.
    I have tried yoga, past life therapy, gulping down anti-depressants, prayer circles etc... nothing seems to life the cloud of depression and anger from my being... nowadays I just don't feel like talking to anyone , not even my family! My mobile is constantly switched off and I am so pissed off with the whole world and most of all with myself!

    I desperately need help... my husband and parents have kind of.. given-up on me... please help me... for the sake of my girls aged 7 and 5! Pleeeeeeese someone help me!
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    Nov 1, 2008, 09:51 PM

    Hi, needhelp kutchs!

    So, what are you angry about? Is there one thing that makes you really irritated over anything else?

    Thanks!
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    Nov 1, 2008, 09:55 PM
    Ya I am angry about not being able to take decisions for myself on my own.I am angry about making some wrong decisions in my life.I am angry about not using my life constructively... not living it up... not using my talents to the full and now I feel incapable of doing anything about it .I am generally disgusted with myself, my house... just about anything... God knows
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    Nov 1, 2008, 09:57 PM

    What paying or salaried jobs have you had?*

    *during the past 15 years (before and during child raising)
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    Nov 1, 2008, 09:59 PM
    I 've worked as a nursery teacher, also as a content writer working from home for a year and a half!
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    Nov 1, 2008, 10:00 PM

    What is your education in?
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    Nov 1, 2008, 10:01 PM

    I do have another question also, and that would be what are some of the things that you feel that you're really good at doing? But, please do address the question that Wondergirl asked first, please.

    Thanks!
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    Nov 1, 2008, 10:08 PM
    I have a masters degree in Business Administration done Full time!
    I am good at talking to people, organising things, writing , public speaking.. I was good at all this once upon a time!
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    Nov 1, 2008, 10:10 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by needhelp kutchs View Post
    I have a masters degree in Business Administration done Full time!
    I am good at talking to people, organising things, writing , public speaking .. i was good at all this once upon a time!
    Perfect! Better than I could ever have imagined! (And you still are good at it all... trust me, you are.)
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    Nov 1, 2008, 10:15 PM

    Craig, you want to say something? Or I will jump in.
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    Nov 1, 2008, 10:17 PM
    Do you have any free times during the day, or are you very involved with your kids and their school and being a homemaker?
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    Nov 1, 2008, 10:18 PM
    Part 2 of that is, do you have any free time in the evenings, any evening?
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    Nov 1, 2008, 10:21 PM

    I'm working on it right now!
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    Nov 1, 2008, 10:25 PM

    Common guys ! Speak up
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    Nov 1, 2008, 10:28 PM

    Originally Posted by needhelp kutchs
    I have a masters degree in Business Administration done Full time!
    I am good at talking to people, organising things, writing , public speaking.. I was good at all this once upon a time!
    Originally Posted by Wondergirl Perfect! Better than I could ever have imagined! (And you still are good at it all... trust me, you are.)
    Yes, I'm sure also that you're still good at those things!

    I sense that a big part of your frustration and anger is that you're not doing the things for which you were educated and trained and also those things that you know you have really good abilities to do. Would that be correct?

    Another couple of questions - What sort of things have you written and have you ever written any poetry?

    I know that you have a lot of questions coming at you right now! Please do take your time!

    Thanks!
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    Nov 1, 2008, 10:30 PM

    I have free time during the day when my kids go to school and I have a full time maid who cooks and cleans as well.
    Evenings are not free as my husband has social commitments as an Army Officer wherein I too have to go ; by order!
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    Nov 1, 2008, 10:30 PM

    And don't forget my questions about what free time you have during the day or evening!
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    Nov 1, 2008, 10:32 PM
    No I have never written poetry but did ghost writing for a number of hi-profile people and also wrote for a content writing firm that employes people to write on anything and everything... no poetry ever... no
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    Nov 1, 2008, 10:33 PM
    I told you I have free time in the mornings about 5 hours , but none in the evenings
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    Nov 1, 2008, 10:39 PM

    Wonder girl left... r u still around clough
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