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    coppertop25 Posts: 5, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 26, 2008, 01:31 PM
    How do I tell him I don't want to get hurt
    I do want to be with this man but to be working with him it will be hard to break it off. I am so confused. What do I say to him. I have wrote something's down to keep in mind on what to say. And another thing, he has been asking to bring my child to his kids games. His wife will be there,but he says to not be noticed. I can't bare to see her. I have not gone to one yet. If I do break it off, do you think I can still be friends with him since I work around him all day long.
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    Oct 26, 2008, 01:43 PM

    So let me see if I understand this correctly. You are having an affair with a married man that you work with? Or is he separated or divorced.
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    Oct 26, 2008, 01:58 PM

    In her other post she stated he was married and something about him moving back with her but he might move in with her if she gets her own place, something like that.

    Leave this guy alone he's nothing worth having around. Move on with your life because you don't need him. If you stay you will only get hurt.

    In your other post you asked about breaking it off with him and I think that is the best thing for you to do. You made a mistake now learn from it.
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    Oct 26, 2008, 02:11 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by MsMewiththat View Post
    so let me see if I understand this correctly. You are having an affair with a married man that you work with? or is he separated or divorced.
    The man is married, but he has left her before. The only reason he says he is with her is cause she moved states and needs to be with the kids.
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    Oct 26, 2008, 02:44 PM

    Your on here asking advice. Honestly. You are correct to pay attention to your first mind. Leave him alone. Let him finish his commitment if that is what he intends to do. How do you know that he is telling you the truth? Really, did you hear the story from her or him? Think outside the box. Be careful
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    Oct 28, 2008, 09:37 AM

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    You asked for this drama, and confusion, that's what you got! It comes with the territory, when you let love for a married man, get you carried away.
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