[shazamataz]

Stress can effect your flow but even if he did not come when you had sex there is still a chance of pregnancy. How do you know he has never had precum? You can't exactly see it when it is inside you.

Wait until your next period would be due and if it does not come take a pregnancy test using first morning urine.

Always use protection.

[heyitscharley]

Well, he has never had it before. Why would he have it now?
And yeah I know I can't see what's going on while he is inside of me but we only did anything for like 3mins and he kept taking it out just to be sure..

[J_9]

How do you know he never "had it before" Preejaculate is present whenever a man is aroused. It is the male form of lubrication and does contain sperm.

[21maleDevilDog]

That's the sad thing. Birth control pills give a false sense of security, 98.7% effective, well, that's not 100%.

I have a friend who has endomitriosis, one ovary, polysystic ovarian disease and many other health problems. She was told she'd never have children but her and her boyfriend tried anyway, they had two, the doctor said they were lucky.

Well, her boyfriend (soon to be hubby) was due to go in for a vasectomy, they decided two was enough, but until the procedure, she went on the pill and they used condoms. Guess what, she's now pregnant with her third, due in January.

In other words, if you're relying on birth control, you're putting your faith in something that isn't always effective, it's still very possible to get pregnant.

Abstinence is the only thing that works 100%, I doubt that they'll ever come up with a fool proof pill or other form of contraceptive, and even if they do, there's still human error.

Bottom line, don't want a baby, don't have sex. Also, STD's are always a possibility, even when you use a condom, condoms aren't anywhere near 100% effective and the chance of human error is even higher. Most people don't use condoms correctly, even if they did there's still a chance of failure.
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Wow I had no idea that would be possible. I'm 21 and my ex said the doctors told her her overies were kinda small and I have been in many fites and hit in the balls so I rarely used a condom for 5 years. Thank you for the advice my eyes are very wide lol. I like all you have to say, you'r very interesting to read.

[Alty]

21Male. I'd love to read your post, sadly the red is way too hard on the eyes.

Most people will just pass your posts by. Reading shouldn't hurt. ;)

Please post in black.

Thank you.

[Kadehadaire]

This thread is a great idea. Many people don't know about sexual issues.

I think some things are different for different people.

My husband and I have unprotected sex (I cannot take any form of pill/implent etc etc) and we don't like condoms. We use the pull out method (he is exceptionally skilled ;) ) and we have never been pregnant. Not ever, not once.

I always thought it was very easy to become pregnant, but I guess that is not alwas the case.

I myself would love a child, but we are waiting a little bit longer for various reasons.

Has anyone else experienced the same thing? I.e unprotected sex with the pull out method for years, and no pregnancy?

And if that is too general a question - has anyone gotten pregnant while using the pull-out method? (on here, I mean).

[Panthers13]

What are some of the main symptons for being pregnant?

[Alty]

What are some of the main symptons for being pregnant?

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/pregna...ing-26487.html

[give2me1lemons]

I've seen this brought up a lot on these forums, so I had to ask. What happens if two people, both underage, have sex and someone actually decides to prosecute?

I know about statutory rape (consentual sex between a minor and someone of legal age), but I have never heard of two people (say both 15 or both 16) being punished for having sex.

Also, isn't there a grace period or leeway of sorts where someone of legal age can have sex with someone underage--as long as there is only like a year or two difference between the two people?

Am I wrong?


P.S. I'm 18, so this does not apply to me anymore. I'm also not saying I condone or condemn underage sex.

Thanks.

[SlightlyBroken]

I lost my birth control packet so I haven't been on it for a couple of weeks. I ended up having sex with a close guy friend, actually I made him wear a condom when I gave him head and then a new one when we had sex because I wanted to make sure we were safe. It got kind of awkward so in the middle we kind of just stopped and I put my clothes back on. So there was no ejaculation. This was on Wednesday (yes I realize it was only two days ago) but the thing is I should have started my period already. Instead I had this weird brownish red colored discharge. I had some cramps and my body acted like I was going to get my period but I haven't.
Is it possible that the pre ejaculation fluids could have gotten me pregnant even using a condom?
Also if I don't get my period soon when should I test?
If I am pregnant could my antidepressants or my ritilan hurt the baby? Should I stop taking these?

[Justwantfair]

Yes, there is a possibility you could be pregnant, you are having sex, the only fool-proof way to not get pregnant is abstinance.
It's not terribly likely that you are pregnant but I would give it a few more days and then try a pregnancy test if you haven't started.
The brownish discharge is probably the beginning of your period, so only time will tell. Your body could also be off schedule since you haven't taken your birth control in a couple of weeks.

[SlightlyBroken]

Only a few days? It will pick up by then?

[Justwantfair]

Try a week, if you feel a few days are too soon.

Depending on your schedule some pregnancy tests can tell you as early as your missed period.

[Alty]

Unlikely that you are but like Justy said, any time you have sex there's a chance of pregnancy.

If you only had sex 2 days ago then it's way too early to test. I'm going to go out on a limb and say that you're probably just having an off month, but that's just a guess.

As for your medication, I don't know about Ritalin but the anti-depressants, it depends on what kind you're using. If you are pregnant then it's best to see your doctor right away because of these medications, so you can determine the best way to proceed.

Good luck.

[SlightlyBroken]

Thank you! I will post what happens :)

[SlightlyBroken]

Oh and the antidepressant is zoloft

[SlightlyBroken]

I got my period.
Thank you for the answers :-)

[worrywort77]

Hey most of u girls out there if u are sexuly active I need help can you go to my profile and anweser the only queston on thr thanks

[Alty]

hey most of u girls out there if u are sexuly active i need help can you go to my profile and anweser the only queston on thr thnx

If it's a question about sex then be forewarned, you must be 18 or over to post in the sexuality forum, and we will not give sexual advice to anyone under 18.

Considering your use of chat speak (which is against the rules of this site) I'm going to guess that you're under 18.

[help__009]

Three years ago I uneducatedly used something for masturbation that I shouldn't have and it cut me pretty bad.. and not "reg" masturbation but the OTHER area.. I'm kind of worried now about infection/cuts should I go to the doctor, what would I say?