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    Oct 22, 2008, 08:38 PM
    Head,heart,or groin?
    Okay, I have a bit of a situation.

    I have been with a woman for the past two years and do love her very much. We have recently broke up, by my doing. We had been having problems for the past, maybe three or four months.
    But here comes the twist... I have kissed a guy we both know, but that I would be friends with, a few times before we broke up. Since we've broken up I have slept with this guy. I know!. complicated crap really.
    Anyway the reason I'm putting all this up here is because I'm so confused and really have no one to talk to. My girlfriend wants to get back with me and as I have said I do love her, but we have had problems, the other guys interested and in some ways I just want think I should be on my own for a while


    ... so follow your head? Your heart? Or your groin?
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    Oct 22, 2008, 08:42 PM

    I think you're right in thinking that you should be on your own for a while. Let your heart settle, let your groin calm down, and let your head clear.
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    Oct 22, 2008, 08:45 PM

    You unfortunately easier said than done thou.. really feel like I'm being pulled in 3 different directions :)
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    Oct 22, 2008, 09:08 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by neverme View Post
    ya unfortunatly easier said than done thou..really feel like I'm being pulled in 3 different directions :)
    Well, if the choices are to have your head pulled, your heart pulled or your groin pulled, I know which one is going to hurt the most. :eek: :rolleyes:

    Always use your noggin'. The only thing more unreliable for life choices than the heart is the groin. Head first, baby. (although a little input from the heart and groin is recommended)




    (I swear, these puns write themselves, sometimes.)
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    Oct 22, 2008, 09:16 PM

    I know, well you see is I see the boy quite often and we get on very well.. he makes me laugh in a way few are able to.. but on the other hand she loves me so much, and we have such history.. its a hard one to get my head around... ahh! (sigh :( )
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    Oct 22, 2008, 10:51 PM

    If it weren't hard, it wouldn't be worth it.
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    Oct 23, 2008, 12:03 AM

    What would you be doing if your heart, head and groin were all in alignment?
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    Oct 23, 2008, 06:24 AM

    Wait, are you a guy or a girl?
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    Oct 23, 2008, 06:33 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by simoneaugie View Post
    What would you be doing if your heart, head and groin were all in alignment?
    Ha ha you your not wrong!! :)
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    Oct 23, 2008, 06:34 AM

    I'm a girl!
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    Oct 23, 2008, 07:46 AM

    A groin alignment... more puns writing themselves.
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    Oct 23, 2008, 07:58 AM

    Stay single until you figure it out. This confusion doesn't have to be a bad thing, nor should it.
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    Oct 23, 2008, 09:39 AM

    Still confused but its better to get some insight, thanks guys..
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