[basketball1995]

My husband filled for divorce last year after Icalled the cops on him for a small domestic violance. He was arested in his office in front of his colleagues and filled for divorce the next day. I was 6 months pregnant and that didn't seem to stop him. We're almost at the end but I never wanted to emberan him or get him onto trouble, I just wanted to shaw him that the way he was treating me was not good.

I've tried to explain that to him and have appolagazed but it hasn't seem to work. He is now dating one of his formal students but in the summer he was fighting with her and for some odd reason revealled everything to me. He was calling her all kinds of names to me and telling me how much she hurt him. She's also going through divorce but it seem that lately they've made up and are getting close again. I know he has slep with her.

My question is, Will he ever consider forgiving me and getting back with me. He has on number of occasions slept with me since he filled for divorce and while he was with her.

Thanks

[mishelly3]

I hate to burst your bubble but No he probably won't come back to you. I went through something simularexcept I was 8 mo pregnet . I thought the same thing for the longest time and he would also call complaining about his girlfriend as I was hime with 2 of his kids and the third on the way. I fed myself full of lies for the longest time and it just made it that much harder when I had too face the facts he wasn't coming home. It hard very hard But YOU CAN DO IT. And a word to the wise donnt sleep with him again, he's thinking he got a great thing going on now he can sleep with you between girl friends but when the baby comes those vists will become less and less.
Do you really want to bring your baby up with some one like that.. I joined a support group and found out just how strong I was.. It really helps...

Be good to yourself

[450donn]

So let me get this straight in my mind. You called the cops thinking they would harass him, instead they arrest him for being abusive. Now you are giving him pity sex? Do I have it right so far? First, why did you call the cops and then think they would not arrest him if you said he was abusive? And on top of everything else he is talking bad about his current girl friend to you? Something does not sound right here. First off, no more sex with him. Second if he is/was abusive the best thing you can do for yourself is end it ASAP.