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    Oct 19, 2008, 07:33 AM
    My boyfriend is not that interested in sex
    I am 27 and my boyfriend is 29; we have been together for over 3 years and we are crazy for each other. We were 2 years in the distance and I moved to London for him. In January we moved together to a new apartment. Our relationship is very good, although we don't have much time for each other due to work, mainly. We have sex around 3 times a month, but every time its amazing for both. We have great orgasms and really enjoy it. He is always very sweet, tender and caring. However, he is not that bother about having sex. He says he is not 18 anymore and he feels tired, but when we have sex he looks over the moon! I know he thinks I am gorgeous and he is not cheating on me. I don't know what to do to turn him on, I feel frustrated sometimes and I would appreciate some advice.
    Thanks
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    Oct 19, 2008, 07:39 AM

    Is stress or drugs involved? I am 27 and my boyfriend is 37. Well, he recently passed away. We had sex 3 times a week as opposed to three times a month. I don't think it is your boyfriend's age. Have you had a talk with him? Tell him how you feel and ask him if there is anything different he would like. I understand your concern. That would kill me.
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    Oct 19, 2008, 02:12 PM

    If you talk to him and he says that is all the intercourse he wants, then, make up your needs by masturbation.
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    Oct 20, 2008, 07:35 AM

    Oh... if you are OK with it... watching an adult video together is stimulating.
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    Oct 20, 2008, 11:59 AM

    3 times a month is probably average for me and my husband too and we're only 26. With work and stuff we're just too tired for more than that. Well he's not up for it much and I'm too tired to keep chasing his round the bedroom...
    Follow choux's advice :-)

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