[srulik86]

OK I know I probably sound like a right drama queen, but I have most recently gotten back with my ex girlfriend who for the last year I have claimed that I am in love with and want to marry etc. I am currently in a show and before getting back with my ex I had a thing with someone in it. Last night me and that person got together again and I have spent the most compfortable, lovelyt day with them. So yes that's right I am a cheater! I know its terrible, but now I'm so confused. Because with this other girl I can be myself more than ever, in all ways. But with my girlfriend I kind abecome a bit of who she wants me to be. My girlfriend is young also and this other girl is older than me. My rpob is do I risk getting rid of my girlfriend after spnding the last year ona and off wanting her back so bad, or start something p with this new girl who it just feels so right with?

[liz28]

How about you leave both them alone and clear you head and think about what you want and the definition of a relationship because cheating isn't cool and unfair to the other person and if your going be with someone control your actions.

[Romefalls19]

Sru, We've been through a lot together on this forum eh? So I'm not going to pull and punches with you. Ready?

Leave them both alone and get yourself worked out. You see a future with your ex, but can be yourself with the new girl which leads me to believe you don't know what you really want out of a relationship. Take some time to recoup and understand your feelings, you got all caught up with your ex then gave into temptation. I don't think you know what you want so until you do, save those girls the heartache

[jjwoodhull]

You are not doing the right thing for yourself or for either of the women. Figure it out before you drag either of them further into something.

[srulik86]

Your right! Your all right , I know what I got to do.