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harmony32 · Oct 14, 2008, 10:21 PM

Hi, everyone
I'm very confused right now, I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months,his family knows me & like me & mutual feelings with my family.. his feeling toward me is that he loves me and his in love with me, things are really great between us until tonight, he had physical relationship in the past with this woman before he meet me, but there relationship didn't last long, but they both decided to stay friends, e-mailing each other & talking on the phone now & then when she needs help on advice not much on his end, I had a problem with that, I told my boyfriend nicely, babes I love you & trust you but at the sametime I don't feel comfortable your friendship with her is waaay to close, he said there nothing more then just a friends they been friends for years,yes I feel jealous about it, now we got into another fight about the same person they still keep e-maling each other & he got mad were both yelling at each other then he said I need a BREAK, does that means my relationship with him is over & he won't ever call me back?or he just need sometimes.. and we got plans ahead already for me going to his familys house for thankgiving on nov 27.. I don't know what to think & I don't know what to do, do I call him? Or just wait for him to call me?. I'm really scared I do love him & I don't want to lose him.. please help me out.. thank you

xia lin · Oct 14, 2008, 10:53 PM

Maybe he just needs space. Try talking to him again when everythings cool. Guys don't like woman who are pushy. Also if you can't stop him from emailing the girl, why don't you befriend with the girl instead of getting jealous. This way, you'll understand why is she acting such and what is the reason that your boyfriend keeps on helping her every time she needs him. Who knows, you might also be of help in the future. Your boyfriend might appreciate you more if you try doing it. Loving a person means sacrifice. Sacrifice means accepting everything. It is like martyrdom. I should know. Been through a lot of relationship. Been on my lowest and on my top. I hope this helps girl buzz me anytime you need more advices or just wanted someone to talk to. :)

talaniman · Oct 15, 2008, 07:28 AM

He wants space, give it to him, as YOU need some time to reflect on your own reactions, and behavior.

5 months is much to soon to know someone, and expect someone to change what they are doing for you. That's not realistic, nor practical.

So leave him alone, and let the emotional dust settle, before you do anything.

Arguing and screaming, is not the best way to communicate your concerns, or feelings.