[TrueFaith]

It's a hard one your young and you are probable just scared that you won't find any of the HOT bomb shells that are on t.v you want wild sex

But hey after 3 years things change and it should get to the nice stage. Not the damn she is fat I want to leave.

If you don't want to have sex with her because you are not attracted to her anymore then well my friend you have to leave her.

Because your just waisting her time and yours.

[jammyb]

I was actually in a similar situation bud. I was with my ex (who facially was a stunner, but also was bigger than I the sort I normally go for) for 2.5 years altogether. For the first two years our situation was almost exactly the same as yours, and to tell you the truth, I actually hinted that I wasn't sexually attracted to her sometimes.

My lack of sexual attraction to her started to bug me, and I would often get frustrated and we'd argue about stupid things, usually they were started by me. After a while she wised up to it, and another guy started paying her attention. She split up with me to be with him, and is now still with that other guy. Im still upset by her cheating even after 6 months, despite knowing that in a way I deserved what I got.

Be honest with yourself mate, we all think our relationships are different from everyone else's, but at the end of the day they're all the same.

Hope that helps

[_Garbo_]

I have this same type of problem, and yes I'm aware of its reality and the wrong that is being committed. The difference is that I've already told her all these things, time and time again. I said I was wrong, and that it couldn't continue this way. But every single time, every time I try to end things, she goes all suicidal and frantic. Then es at me that I can't ever "make up [my] mind." Except that I HAVE made up my mind, but can't very well leave it at that if she's going ape and talking about dying etc etc.... So basically take HIS exact situation, make the girl suicide-prone and then try to come up with something. On a sidenote... we're both actually loners. I have very few friends. She has even less than me. And most of what we DO have are friends inside of the "circle". In other words, if we break up, there will be... "custody battles"... Essentially, we're all each other has. I'm all she has, and she's all I have. But it's not working. Neither of our lives could really improve from ending it at this point. But if you know it's doomed, it just seems like a move to stay and wait for a good time. Because let's face it. It's NEVER a good time.