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achampio21 · Oct 10, 2008, 09:01 AM

Hey Judy what was that paperwork you told a previous OP she could file that had to do with this same subject? I can't recall the post but I remember you told the OP to go to clerk and file a certain paper then pack up and leave and they should be fine...

JudyKayTee · Oct 10, 2008, 09:19 AM

Originally Posted by achampio21

Hey Judy what was that paperwork you told a previous OP she could file that had to do with this same subject? I can't recall the post but I remember you told the OP to go to clerk and file a certain paper then pack up and leave and they should be fine...

Without looking at the previous post, whatever that question was, I don't know - but as a married couple she can leave with the children at any time. Not saying he won't fight it and her point of telling him where she is - after she gets there - is a good one.

The problem I see there is that if this marriage then dissolves it will be where they were residents, not wherever she moves, and she would have to go back for a divorce/custody/support proceeding or proceedings.

achampio21 · Oct 10, 2008, 09:34 AM

Hmm, I don't remember the post. Sorry. But yes you make a good point. And they would have to figure out a visitation schedule too wouldn't they?

AskJenny · Oct 10, 2008, 09:36 AM

Originally Posted by unhappy2484

i had spoken with 2 before one said i could leave the other said i had to go to court to leave the state. i was like this is insane. so now i am going to talk to another lawyer monday and see what i can do i am not going to go to court so i can see if i can leave and watch him sit there and deny everything. he thinks he has done nothing wrong. and i had it.

You can go for a visit can't you? Don't call it leaving or moving... just call it a visit and while you are there seek advice on making it permanent... I thought if you found gainful employment in another state that was justification for moving w/your child? Check that out w/an attorney please.