[iDish]

I just want to know where's the best place is to meet guys when your in college. And not just any guy. Mature guys. I go to a Dominantly white school where everyone either drinks, smokes or has sex on a ridiculously regular basis. I'm not interested in Drug-abusing whores. Are there places where there are people who DON'T act that way? I would join clubs but I don't have nay interests in them and I don't want to join a club for the sake of meeting people. Besides, people who ARE part of a club are interested in what the club stands for (anime, music, sports, nationality, etc... ). Not with dating.

[jrsg]

I would imagine the library would have some decent guys... Maybe there are some in your classes too.

[JBeaucaire]

You should rethink your opinion of clubs. Maturity is about accomplishing things, not hooking up... and in your case, that's STILL what you're after... you're just wanting a long-term hookup. It's the same thing.

Mature relationships are based on broad-ranged commonality, not common interest in each other. So, you need clubs, or club-like groups, where you are trying to accomplish something noteworthy. Being around like-minded people with like-minded selflessness increases your chances of being attracted to a guy on a level other than physical... and vice versa.

Many colleges have Community Service centers or Community Aid centers or something similar, especially Christian Colleges or Christian Clubs. This would be a great place to find altruistic, family-oriented values.

Then look around for similar situations. Your best bet is to find a guy by not looking for him, but working for the good of others in an environment where guys like that would be as well.

Good luck.

[iDish]

You know what Beau? You're right. Good advice.

[JBeaucaire]

You know what Beau? You're right. good advice.

(pout) There's a button for that right in my post... hehe.