If you have a friend in common, have that friend tell this guy for you. Other than that, you'll have to do it yourself.
Part of the process of starting to date is learning how to control your emotions around guys, including shyness. Dating people is hard work and your emotions will often betray you. You HAVE to be stronger than they are. That means overpowering the shyness and talking to people.
Later, it also means overpowering the feelings of attraction and walking away when the guy turns out to be bad for you.
You need to learn how to do this.
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