[redwee74]

My question is a little long but here we go. I was in a relationship that ended weird. We date for about 3 month and I noticed some of the signs of unfaithfulness. The going in another room to talk on the phone, lying about phone conversation and a unexplainable stain in the bed. So I thought the worst. May have been right may not have been behavior was still not something I feel that is part of a healthy relationship. After the breakup she has keep in contact with me as much or more as I have her. Both of us seem to want the contact. She seems to pick fights when we are together and we finally called it quits. Now the same situation is coming around again calling me and then being odd or not returning my calls. What should I do, drop the whole deal or just play along? The problem is that I am really attached to her and her child. This has been going on for longer than we were "together", I kind of feel that she does it this way so she can say she has not been unfaithful. So again what do I do? I will provide more information if anyone needs more.

[ylaira]

Im certain that you are mature enough and you know where that re-contact is leading to. Question is, if you will go back again in each other's arms and the same cycle, CAN YOU FULLY TRUST HER AGAIN?

[mechanickid]

There's billions of women out there,, There is one who will love and treat you right with out games, yes you have an atachment but just let it go and you will see

[JBeaucaire]

If there is a child involved, stop playing around. Do not do the on-again off-again yo-yo with a mother. There are more important issues here.

It's not working, leave them alone.

[redwee74]

Thanks for all the advice. I believe now it is just a way for her to let me down slowly or her using me for her needs. No benefits for me just pain because I want a serious relationship and she does not. Thanks again you all are the best.