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    #1

    Sep 13, 2008, 10:39 PM
    Abstinence-good or bad
    Is

    >Question removed by OP as they clearly don't like being ridiculed<
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    #2

    Sep 13, 2008, 10:46 PM
    1. We don't use the word, "retarded"... and just by the use of that word, it shows you're immature. However, I'm interested in knowing why you think abstinent people are "retarded"... you said it yourself, if you're ready, you should be allowed. Perhaps abstinent people AREN'T ready?. then is that being "retarded?"

    2. How old is "old enough" to have sex in your view? 15? 16? 17?. and if that 17 year old's condom accidentally breaks, and is unaware, and gets pregnant? Then what? Wouldn't a pregnant teen in high school be viewed more, in your words, "a retarded girl?" than a girl who finishes high school, goes to college, meets a guy, gets married, then has a baby?

    3. We don't threaten people here. Congrats that you can find out where people live. And... what? If I say abstinence is good... then you'll come hurt me? Let me save you the trouble of doing IP-routing...

    I live in Atlanta, by Emory University.

    ... I gladly invite you to try. Really.

    Ps - I am not a virgin. I'm a 22 year old college grad. I didn't wait until I was married, nor do I regret it. However, I respect those who choose to wait until they get married. I don't consider them "retarded." I also have friends who DIDN'T wait, and got pregnant... and they are now taking night courses at a community college to get their degree... while working full time jobs during the day. We get enough girls on this forum that ask the question, "15 and pregnant" or "Could I be pregnant?" or "Freaking out about being pregnant"... more times than I can mention.
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    #3

    Sep 13, 2008, 10:57 PM
    This thread is being monitored.
    While the question is interesting the way in which it was posed is not.

    ANY kind of threats will NOT be tolerated here at all and could result in reports being filed with your ISP as well as local Law Enforcement Agencies.

    Ps how is Navarre, Florida at this time of year ?

    Member is 13!
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    #4

    Sep 13, 2008, 10:59 PM
    When I was your age (*drum roll*), no one asked such a question. It wasn't even an issue. Nearly everyone in my peer group was abstinent until marriage. If they weren't, they slept with the person they were engaged to. So I grew up believing in abstinence until marriage and meanwhile sublimating in order to do well in high school and college.
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    #5

    Sep 13, 2008, 11:21 PM
    Also it's quite short sighted to make threats AND fill in your profile on this site.
    Hmmm you might as well post your address as well!!
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    Sep 13, 2008, 11:23 PM
    Ps - I heard college was pretty hard if you have a kid.

    ... I also heard getting into law school is pretty hard when you go to a community college.

    Ps - cb, what about navarre, FL?. wha?
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    #7

    Sep 13, 2008, 11:24 PM
    Being abstinent could be deemed good or bad. If you are teen, obviously it's a good thing. No chances of pregnancy if you aren't having sex. If your 50, it could be a bit irritating.
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    #8

    Sep 13, 2008, 11:24 PM
    And if you're a horny 13 year old kid in middle school?
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    #9

    Sep 14, 2008, 03:27 AM
    Well I see he has been back and removed his profile information.
    A bit late for that as I have already copied it.

    Really do you think I'm THAT stupid!
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    #10

    Sep 14, 2008, 03:43 AM
    Damn it, I missed all the fun! :)
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    #11

    Sep 14, 2008, 03:44 AM
    Yep you did in deed NK, you really should get up earlier ;)
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    #12

    Sep 14, 2008, 08:19 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Curlyben
    Yep you did in deed NK, you really should get up earlier ;)

    OP is a very good exhibit in the argument that too much sex burns out your brain cells at an early age.

    Or maybe thinking too much about sex does the same thing.

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