Him. Me. And her

dawngirl88 · Sep 13, 2008, 05:31 PM

OK? So I'm kind of into this guy... but he has a girlfriend... we have done things that should have not been done... but him and I like each other and yet he won't leave his girlfriend because he thinks that he is her everything... I know I wouldn't want anything with him because if we were to date he would cheat on me to... all I want is for this feeling to go away

h0llister · Sep 13, 2008, 05:41 PM

Stop calling him and hangingout with him. Its selfish. Find another guy you would be able to trust and be with him.

dawngirl88 · Sep 13, 2008, 05:45 PM

I am trying... but its hard... I think that I found this one guys... but I told him about the other guy he got mad... well what am I talking about they both got mad...

h0llister · Sep 13, 2008, 06:05 PM

You need to move on! You 2 will never be able to have a strong relationship it would be a waste of time. A relationship build on cheating and hurt. Mm not a fun start.

JBeaucaire · Sep 14, 2008, 06:56 AM

Neither BE a cheater, nor protect those that cheat. You two are both cheaters, no hope of any peace together. Your feelings are irrelevant now, you've spoiled it all with your behavior so far. You'll have to just live with the result.

Do better next time. You'll have to.

talaniman · Sep 14, 2008, 07:22 AM

What should you expect him to leave his g/f for you when you allow him to cheat, and help him too?? Not only is your behavior wrong, and must be changed, but you need to stop accepting the role as the other female, by cutting him from your life. You need some alone time to figure why you accept this treatment, and what you think another guy is the solution to your problems. Its not, and you need to know that.

You must love yourself, and not depend on a man to give you love.

happy_jester · Sep 14, 2008, 08:14 AM

So I'm kind of into this guy... but he has a girlfriend...

This is where you should've STOPPED!! He has a girlfriend,& already spoken
For.

You must love yourself, and not depend on a man to give you love.

When you love yourself,you will then have much more self-esteem and
Therefore not have the need,or desire to cheat.

By depending on this man {thinking that HE is your everything,when he is NOT}
Caused you,this time, to cheat.

Learn your lesson from this,and move on!!

cantbelieveit · Sep 14, 2008, 09:05 AM

Question if you knew for a fact he had a G/F already why did you think it was OK to be with him? Please explain this to me. I need to understand your point of view because I just do not get how people can justify what they do (cheat) when they KNOW it's wrong.