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    Sep 4, 2008, 04:22 PM
    My kid's dad gets drunk while watching her
    Hi, can anyone steer me in the right direction here... I live with my 9 month old and her father, we are not married. He is an alcoholic and often verbally abuses me. He watches the baby while I'm working, for about 5 hours at night. I have seen him do things to the baby while drunk that make me afraid for her, such as pulling on her arm quite hard until I told him to stop, not waking up when she cries, among other things
    Besides moving out, what can I do? After I move out, what do I do when he insists on spending time with her? Do we go to court for child support, and is that where I establish his drinking problem? Do I call the police? Please help me
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    Sep 4, 2008, 04:38 PM
    After you move out, you call Child Protective Services in your area, or call the police and ask them to direct you in the right direction, but whatever you do, DO IT NOW BEFORE YOUR BEAUTIFUL BABY GIRL is permanently injured or killed. DEATH IS FOREVER. THERE IS NO COMING BACK. If something happens to her, IT IS TOO LATE TO BRING HER BACK. You carried her! You gave her life! Now protect her! At all costs! No matter what it takes! YOU ARE RUNNING OUT OF TIME!
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    Sep 5, 2008, 09:46 AM
    Here's what you do when going to work don't just go go and talk to one of your family members about an place to stay send that family over to take the child out for an good time but actully don't let that member bring that child back to that house either you and your child could wind up dead and the next day child protection services and let them know what this man been doing to you and that child don't worry about getting him help he hads to want to help himself and don't let thi man know what you are up too and don't let this man know talk in your head that he is going to get better because he just want to get you are that child back in too tha house and hurt you both go to the police please get some help for you and your child beause any man that hurts and child are an women is not an really man and he doesn't care about you are that child you half to want to help yourself please don't make the ame mistake as some people out here either they go back to this man and wind getting hurts or that child gets hurts do want to live with that regret when that child grows up and you gets killed because of being dum for an man and this child lives without her mother she hads to live with this scar and when she gets older she mit follow in your foot steps thing about this one get help and fast!!
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    Sep 5, 2008, 10:13 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by kyeisha jones
    here's what u do when going to work don't just go go and talk to one of your family members about an place to stay send that family over to take the child out for an good time but actully don't let that memeber bring that child back to that house either you and your child could wind up dead and the next day child protection services and let them know what this man been doing to you and tht child don't worry about gettin him help he hads to wanna help him self and don't let thi man know what u are up too nd don't let this man know talk in your head that he is gonna get better because he just wanna get you are that child back in too tha house and hurt u both go to the police please get some help for you and your child beause any man that hurts and child are an women is not an really man and he does'nt care about you are that child you half to wanna help your self please don't make the ame mistake as some people out here either they go back to this man and wind gettin hurts or that child gets hurts do wanna live with that regret when that child grows up and you gets killed because of beeing dum for an man and this child lives without her mother she hads to live with this scar and when she gets older she mit follow in your foot steps thing bout this one get help and fast!!!!!


    This is impossible to follow because of the total lack of punctuation.

    OP - You must get your child out of there - you can't leave him with a child you've SEEN him mistreat with him when you are not there to stop it. Call in Child Protective Services.

    You can move out and file for a protective order. You can stay and file for a protective order, but I think that will blow up in your face.

    You must protect your child.

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