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    Sep 3, 2008, 08:56 AM
    My ex keeps contacting me
    My ex broke it off with me over 7 months ago. He has been keeping in touch with me like calling or texting me just asking how I am doing and if anything new is happening. About a month ago he a got girlfriend and now the last couple of times he called he said his girlfriend is not good at messing around and things. So he has been asking me if I want to mess around because he says he misses doing things with me. We were suppose to get together but it has never worked out. I don't know what to do or even think. Why is he staying in contact and especially now that has a new girlfriend.
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    Sep 3, 2008, 09:01 AM
    Do not make plans to see him if it is to "mess around". You are obviously not interested in him if you broke up with him 7 months ago and have not been tempted to go back. I'm sure it makes you feel good when he tells you that you are better than her - but don't fall for it! Think of her for a minute. Why would you want to pruposely hurt a total stranger who has done nothing to you?
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    Sep 3, 2008, 09:05 AM
    Wow, great guy! He dumps you in hopes of finding better meat, realizes that she's no good and now wants you back. That shows that he doesn't care for you, only what you can do for him. I would cut all contact with him. Change your number if you have to.
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    Sep 4, 2008, 07:34 AM
    Don't fall for it... think about what has happened!
    He dumps you, finds a new girl yet keeps texting and calling you, and now he wants to cheat on his new girlfriend with you!
    He doesn't sound like that great a guy if he's willing to cheat on her!

    Xoxox
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    Sep 4, 2008, 07:43 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by jjwoodhull
    Do not make plans to see him if it is to "mess around". You are obviously not interested in him if you broke up with him 7 months ago and have not been tempted to go back. I'm sure it makes you feel good when he tells you that you are better than her - but don't fall for it!! Think of her for a minute. Why would you want to pruposely hurt a total stranger who has done nothing to you??

    He broke up with me.
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    Sep 5, 2008, 02:34 PM
    You should ignore him all together and move on. It's not worth it for you to be in the middle of this emotionally or mentally, this sh_t can really take a toll on a girl. Ignore him and move on.
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    Oct 12, 2010, 09:12 AM
    Okay, rule #1: when someone breaks up with you you cut off all contact. That means Facebook, txtin, twitte emails myspaceyahoo and AOL IM's. Do not contact him or her until a long period has passed... Example... 6months4months, etc. Trust
    Me. I am going through the same thing with this guy... And now that I look back... he treated me like crap. Things happen for a reason. You need

    To move on because that other person sure has n is most certainly not having you in their lives as their best interest. They either want to be with you or they don't Hun. Good luck!
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