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    danni2123 Posts: 65, Reputation: 2
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    Aug 17, 2008, 10:08 PM
    Its hurting to have sex
    For the last 2 weeks it been hurting to have sex with my boyfriend. Its like he's hitting something and I can't have sex from behind or anything. Sometimes its also burning. The soonest I could get in the doc is the 29. Does anyone know what this is? I've been trying to get pregnant and well I can't get pregnant if it hurts. So any advise would be great. Thanks in advance
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    Aug 18, 2008, 01:46 PM
    This sounds possibly like a cervical issue, seriously. My girlfriend was diagnosed with a perforated (torn) cervix. Is there any type of bleeding or bloody fluid in any amount? Personal question: How deep is he, how intense is the sex? Does it hurt worse with intensity or is the pain still present once he is in regardless? My gf's cervix became imflamed and swollen, and the possibility of pregnancy has now been reduced by about 60% because of this. I will talk with her more this evening. Let me know... take care
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    Aug 18, 2008, 09:15 PM
    OK thanks for the response. No where not having ruff sex or anything and I'm not bleeding after or during. I had a miscariage in march and didn't have a d&c so I was wondering if there's anything left in there or something? I don't know what's going on really its kind of freaking me out.
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    Aug 21, 2008, 04:03 AM
    This is my experience, I am not giving you medical advise.

    I had a miscarriage where my body wouldn't/couldn't expel all on the tissue & I just keep bleeding & having horribly painful cramps. I don't think you have to worry about "something" being up there, especially if you've had a period since March.

    As for feeling like he's hitting something, I have that problem too, especially from behind. If he's a long fellow it doesn't take ruff sex to make your cervix swell. And obviously if it's swollen it's going to be tender and irritable. Plus, it seems like it would make it harder for the sperm to get their job done. I would just take a few nights break and avoid deep penetration after that.

    But don't skip that dr's appt because burning (assuming it's all the time, not just during sex) can mean infection. Been there, done that.

    I know it's easier said than done, but relax. The baby dance is supposed to be fun! :D

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