[armylove]

Well want to know why he has changed since he got out of basic training he asked me to marry hin when he comes home and he wants to adopt my kids so we can be a family and he wants to take care of us. Well now he has graduated boot camp and now in Maryland doing ait well don't know what that is cause never get to talk with him cause eather to busy, can't be on the phone or he has bad reception but was able to text in the evening at all times before bed time. When he was in be camp he wrote me almost everyday and called when ever he had the chance just to say he loves me and he misses me very much he would call me more than even calling his own mother. Now I will be lucky if he even text's me that he loves me or missis me I have no idea what he feels anymore but I have been hurt in the past before very bad and for some reason when I had this ugly gut feeling then I was right well I have that gut feeling again but is it because of being scorned or am I right again? He told me that he wants me to stop texting him and stop calling him cause he needs space to regroup.. so now I feel like I am up in the ait with all of this and have no idea what he wants does he still want us or does he have change of mind or am I right again is he seeing someone else up there? I even told him that I was up in Maryland this past weekend but really wasn't to see what he would say he said that he had no weekend passes and he said that I should move on cause I seem to have without him and for me to becaefull then he tells me that he loves me and for me to stop texting him cause he needs his space so you now the ? Is what does he mean by space I feel like he does have weekend passes but doesn't want to tell me cause having fun with other guys which I don't mind or he is seeing someone that lives there in Maryland what to do I don't know but should I go up there and surprise him or should I just let go or just give him space ? What to do I don't know

[N0help4u]

You have to realize he is giving 4 years to the Army, basically THEY OWN him and he is feeling like what good is it to make long term plans when he doesn't know what can happen to him within the next 4 years. Not only is he busy, he also has a lot on his mind.
Be supportive and patient and give him his space, if you don't feel that you can do that maybe he isn't the guy for you. My son has been in the Army about two years now and he just broke up with his girlfriend this past 4th of July because it was too hard on her with him in the Army.