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    Aug 8, 2008, 02:46 PM
    Kissing in front of friends
    So a guy asked me to go out with him tomorrow. I think I'm ready. I never kissed a guy before and I'm a bit frightened... I know that it kind of comes natural but can somebody tell me some things to make me feel more comfortable. And I don't want to kiss him in front of his and my friends and I don't know what to say to him about it. Any suggestions are greatly appreciated.
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    Aug 8, 2008, 03:06 PM
    Just tell him you do not feel comfortable kissing in public. You feel kissing should be done in private especially since it will be your first time and you want to feel it is special between him and you.
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    Aug 9, 2008, 12:17 AM
    I am also uncomfortable kissing
    My girlfriend and I hug passionetly
    Two weeks ago I was talking to her best friend and she said my girlfriend emma wants to make out and I'm afraid were going to have out and when I'm not looking just make-out with me
    What do I do because she won't listen and she likes it her way
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    Aug 9, 2008, 11:09 AM
    Kissing in front of friends is not an issue until AFTER you actually start kissing. Worry about things in the right order. It sounds like you are a "fretter" and make lists of worrisome things. That is an unfortunate habit and will add undue stress to your life over and over.

    Try to break that habit.

    You can make the actual kissing moment easier by using "open body language" to him to signal you are ready. For that, you open your personal space to him and remove any barriers between you, and perhaps even lean into him HALF way. He has to come the other half. Very natural.

    Watch for him doing the same "halfway" step himself, in which case you will have to complete the last step. Occasionally, some guys are gung-ho and dive all the way right in. If they are too rough, grab them gently by the shoulders and push them away SLIGHTLY, but keep kissing him. That will signal him to be more gentle.

    Kissing in front of others is no big deal. Worry about that when you've started kissing in private.
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    Aug 9, 2008, 06:05 PM
    Don't worry about it, let it happen naturally and it will, and you won't care who saw it happen
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