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    Aug 7, 2008, 10:25 AM
    Tough love for son and daughter-in law
    I have a young adult son whose married with a child, he recently became incarcerated, but is due out soon, they live with us (spouse & siblings), however we no longer wish for them to live with us, however neither is employed, she receives disability. They have no where else to live and he has to find employment, but they need to leave asap in addition, my spouse does not want them with us not a minute more and I am stressed as to what I need to do. The wife has a legal situation that needs to be cleared up before she can become employed. In addition, they no longer have any transportation and I cannot and will not become their cheuffeur. There is no arguing in my home and I'd like to keep it that way, but my spouse as well as I no longer trust them. I have no problem assisting them (not monetarily) but with finding or directing them to finding an apartmentment, but of course that can't happen without a job, I have been looking at areas where they can have access to the transit system in order to get around. They are both young, but my son made some very poor judgement decision that not only affected his life, but the entire family and we are just tired of it. They have been with us for 6 months.
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    Aug 7, 2008, 10:50 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by mominquestion
    I have a young adult son whose married with a child, he recently became incarcerated, but is due out soon, they live with us (spouse & siblings), however we no longer wish for them to live with us, however neither is employed, she receives disability. They have no where else to live and he has to find employment, but they need to leave asap in addition, my spouse does not want them with us not a minute more and I am stressed as to what I need to do. The wife has a legal situation that needs to be cleared up before she can become employed. In addition, they no longer have any transportation and I cannot and will not become their cheuffeur. There is no arguing in my home and I'd like to keep it that way, but my spouse as well as I no longer trust them. I have no problem assisting them (not monetarily) but with finding or directing them to finding an apartmentment, but of course that can't happen without a job, I have been looking at areas where they can have access to the transit system in order to get around. They are both young, but my son made some very poor judgement decision that not only affected his life, but the entire family and we are just tired of it. they have been with us for 6 months.

    If you are in the US they are invited guests and you will have to evict them.

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