[notbigthing]

Boys became recognizing me when I was 13, the first was one of my classmates, he was head over heels in love with me, but I was not, then in my life so far, I hv hd a handful bfs,ditched others or being dumped, because I know they are not the one, and one day I would meet him of my life.
Till one day I met that guy, I thought he was the one, and he thought the same, yeah, I ignored the signs, when he stopped saying I look great, telling me I'm the one,. is love a thing once in a life time? I just went grocery shopping, there were some old couples and kids in the supermarket, that's my dreams, to grow old with him and doing those ordinary life, and hv children with him, hving a family, but now, he left me, they will never happen in my life. But if we find the one, is it once in a life time?
I feel so confused, I just want to know your ideas about love.

[ChihuahuaMomma]

I don't think that there is only one person for everyone. I think that you can fall in love numerous times. The keep a relationship alive, it take commitment, trust, honesty, and hard work.

[Romefalls19]

Nope, love is not a one time thing. You will fall in love more than onve, each one different than the one before it

[Fr_Chuck]

Nope in fact I don't think you really know true love until you have been with that person for years, love is something that grows, you have passion, you have lust and you have desires and you have friendships, from that love is something that you work on and make it grow.

But you can after a serious relationship slowly move on, and find another to work on a relationship with. Love and a relationship takes a lot of work, it is not easy it takes commitments that very few are willing to give of each other today

[talaniman]

People fall in, and out of love everyday. When your sad, and lonely, after losing someone, the world is cold, and heartless, but someone comes along and your so happy, you forget that misery you had yesterday.

Such is the way of life.