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    imdur17 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 5, 2008, 09:38 AM
    13 and might be pregnant.
    Okay me and my 16 year old boyfriend were messing around last night.
    I don't know if he stuck his penis in me or not, but he was fingereing me.. and I think he came on his fingers and then put them in me.
    I am not sure.
    I am 13 and I am not ready to have a baby.
    I can't even stand blood. Let alone have a cut through my stomach and push.
    Ew.
    My family is going to kill me.
    Please help me understand.
    And tell me if I am pregnant
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    Aug 5, 2008, 09:54 AM
    Your right, 13 and you shouldn't be ready for a baby.

    So, stop doing adult things that can have adult conciqunces.

    Its only been a day.. you wouldn't be able to tell if your pregnant or not.

    How do you not know if he stuck his penis in you or not? I would hope you would know.. Another example why you shouldn't be messing around.

    If he came on his fingers, the possibility that the sperm did not die from air exposure is very slim. But if he went inside of you with his penis an came.. there is a MUCH higher possibility. Even if he didn't orgasum, there is always precum and that can cause preganancy.

    Contact your doctor or health clinic to obtain the "day after pill." Ask for birth control, and make sure if you continue to experiment.. that you have condoms available. But be prepared for the worst... why play with fire ?

    When your period if expected... don't stress out. That will delay it..

    If you feel your family is going to kill you... this is a horrable time to start doing sexual things. UNneeded stress during teenage years... it will already be stressful!
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    Aug 5, 2008, 01:15 PM
    Oh, dear.

    First, depending on your state, your boyfriend could be charged with rape.
    Second, we can't tell you if you're pregnant or not but anytime you have sex, you've put yourself at risk.

    For the sake of you, your boyfriend, and possibly a baby, you should put any type of sex on hold until you talk to a trusted adult and get birth control and condoms. Because you're so young that you're scared of your parents and you do not know much about sex at this point, you're playing a very risky game. Pregnancy is one complications but what about STD's or AIDS? Is there a nurse in your school that you could talk to?

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