[GABBY0124]

No we do not... we live with her parents and I do not have friends neither does she and my mom works full time so I only see her on the weekends and yes she is with me.

[danielnoahsmommy]

What's done is done.

Do you think it is healthy to be with each other 24/7? I don't

[GABBY0124]

Well it's been 2 years and it's been perfectly fine.

[ChihuahuaMomma]

You both need separate friends and separate lives. You need to be separate people.

[GABBY0124]

Well I think that having friends usually ruins a relationship and I have a 4 year old daughter and can not do much anyway!

[ChihuahuaMomma]

Are you serious? Friends ruin a relationship? I don't think that you're view of relationships is healthy. I've been with my boyfriend for two years and we both have our own friends, have jobs, and go to school. Separate lives are healthy.

[danielnoahsmommy]

You are making excuse for an unhealthy relationship. I have a 5 year old married, work and still have time for friends

[ChihuahuaMomma]

I agree with DanielNoahsMommy. You can maintain a romantic life, being a parent, and still having friends.

[GABBY0124]

Well thank you for your opinion but I would rather not have friends based on bad experiences but everyone is different that's your own opinion and I have mine but thank you for sharing!

[ChihuahuaMomma]

I've had bad experiences with friends as well, that didn't stop me from making friends with other people. I have four really wonderful best friends, and tons of awesome acquaintances. If you let a bad experience stop you from experiencing that same thing again, then your life will be dull and boring.

[GABBY0124]

I don't understand how my relationship has anything to do with my test!

[ChihuahuaMomma]

It has everything to do with it. The point I am trying to make is that if you aren't the one that could be bringing in an std, then the other person could. Being together 24/7 is unhealthy, and that could force someone to go to the store and never return (trust me, I know!)

[danielnoahsmommy]

Gabby, we are just offering you advice on the situation you have given to us. Its an unbiadssed veiw of your life froman outsiders perspectivfe. It does not appear healthy. Sorry if you don't agree.

[GABBY0124]

And I understand all that but I also think it is unhealthy to be apart too much.

[danielnoahsmommy]

You are not apart at all and what does that teach your child?

[GABBY0124]

My question was to know if it was possible to have a false possitive test whether my relationship is healthy or not or whether I gave it to her or she gave it to me all I am sayinh is that we both gotten tested numerous times and all came back negative I was just a little confused about that.

[ChihuahuaMomma]

And i understand all that but i also think it is unhealthy to be apart too much.

It can be yes, but who decides how much? I see my boyfriend every morning and every night, we have a healthy sex life, and we have healthy separate lives, we both have goals in life.

[GABBY0124]

Teach my child what?

[danielnoahsmommy]

We gave you the answer. Pretend you are positive and use protection condom/dental dam.

[GABBY0124]

O.K But everybody is different and I I have goals too but I am just not doing much right now because all of the medical problems I am experiencing which I posted in other posts.