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    jenny77 Posts: 34, Reputation: 3
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    Jul 28, 2008, 10:31 AM
    Is this technically cheating?
    IF YOU AND YOUR BOYFRIEND WERE TOGETHER FOR 1 YEAR AND 4 MONTHS..AND U GUYS BROKE UP FOR A MONTH..HE SLEPT WITH A GIRL TWICE...DID HE TECHNICALLY CHEAT..WE BOTH THOUGHT IT WAS COMPLETELY OVER ESPECIALLY HIM??? DID HE CHEAT
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    Jul 28, 2008, 10:42 AM
    No you were broken up so no matter how you slice it, he didn't cheat on you.
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    Jul 28, 2008, 11:03 AM
    This is true. It may hurt because you weren't broken up for long, but no. If you were broken up he didn't cheat.
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    Jul 28, 2008, 11:13 AM
    If you were broken up, he was free game (as were you)
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    Jul 28, 2008, 11:14 AM
    Jenny, knowing the background of your situation I hope you aren't looking for excuses for this relationship to heal.

    To answer your question, no it's not cheating. Hiding the fact that he did more than just kiss, that's lying. That makes trust very hard to handle in a relationship.

    It's broken, like a mirror, only going to cause more pain to try n fix it
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    Jul 28, 2008, 11:20 AM
    The fact that he slept with another girl during the breakup, and knowing your situation, I don't know if YOU can get past this. He lied to you about what he did with her. Lying in itself hurts.

    Its up to YOU to figure out if YOU can get past the mess and forgive him and make things work. If you can forgive him for lying, and go from there, then by all means make it work, but if you can't, there is no sense lying to yourself that things will be better.

    My ex promised things would be different after he cheated. We had a trial run at dating and nothing changed, and the 2nd time around I could see through all his lies. And it didn't help that in the back of my mind I knew that what he had done would always be nagging at me and causing doubt.
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