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    Lena12 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 21, 2008, 12:13 AM
    Always arguing
    My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years and I, had a baby 7 months ago, and ever since he was born all we do is argue and fight. He's over protective and nothing I do for our son is right according to him. We can agree are hardly anything or go anywhere without something going wrong and we haven't had sex in 10 months. I don't know what's up.:mad: We use to get along so well until now and use to hold each other hug, cuddle laugh and talk about our future with our son, now I feel like I don't know this person at all. What should I do?
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    Jul 21, 2008, 12:18 AM
    How's his immediate family, money and his job? Does he tell any any problem of those things?
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    Jul 21, 2008, 12:25 AM
    His job is good and he has money, when I ask him if anything is bothering him he always says not or he will say how I'm sheltered I don't know how hard life can really be??
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    Jul 21, 2008, 01:33 AM
    What does he mean your sheltered? You don't socialize and he wants you to try some other things?

    You two have to have to learn how to communicate well because you are living together or else you two are like in a warzone Iraq. Meet halfway and try to understand what he means and maybe take it into consideration. Also he has to learn communicating his concerns without getting personal.

    Communication. Communication.
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    Jul 21, 2008, 09:20 AM
    If he doesn't like the way you do things let him do it himself, or shut the **** up!

    That simple, as you don't need his disrespect, so stand up for yourself. He just needs the cold slap of reality, to adjust his attitude.
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    Jul 21, 2008, 09:35 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman
    If he doesn't like the way you do things let him do it himself, or shut the **** up!.

    That simple, as you don't need his disrespect, so stand up for yourself. He just needs the cold slap of reality, to adjust his attitude.
    Agree totally... you don't want to set a precedent which I'm sure he would be happy to follow...

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