[katie609]

I have a lot of great friends but I'm beginning to hang out with more guys lately than girls. And not even in a sexual way, just as friends. Except my best girlfriend we've been best friends for years and nothings going to change that. Me and my friend are cheerleaders and we dance and we hang out with more of the "popular crowd" I guess you can say but me and my best friend are the only two girls out of our crowd who aren't necessarily mean. Like well we can be but not as bad as the rest of the girls. Were even starting to get sick of it. That's why were starting to hang with the guys. Anyway, were starting to meet guys who we usually wouldn't hang out with . They're cute but they're just shy that's why no one really notices them and they're the nicest guys we've ever met. But once we started hanging out with them and introducing them to more people they just started to get like really mean... :mad: and different and not even really calling us anymore. They're not the same sweet guys we've discovered. They're different.
And this has happened sooo many times with like a lot of different guys.
Is they're something were doing wrong?:confused:

[Sonador101]

Maybe the guys are tryingto impress people (maybe you) by being mean, maybe they are tryingto impress the girls in the "popular/mean" group. It can be a lot of things. What I would do is ask them why they are acting like that, see what there response is.
(ps next time you meet guys, go easy on them, don't go around intoducing them just be friends and play it slow so the shy guys don't freak)

[gizmo_529]

I think the problem is these guy's you say where shy and that you "discovered"... became really into you and when you started introducing them to other people... I am assuming more guy's than girls... they become jealous and possessive... hence the anger and meanness... maybe your giving the wrong signals or maybe you should explain the "just friends" thing more clearly... just my take... hope all works out... see you!