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    crewtherapist55 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 12, 2008, 08:37 AM
    Which one should I choose?
    Well i have a major dilema. I just started going out with this guy who is just a place keeper in my life because i was sick of being single (i know im terrible right?) and we've been going out for a week in secret from his mother (who hates me) and i am not really suppose to tell anyone.

    Now my bet guy friend who everyone i know says is perfect for me tells me that he likes me and wants to be with me, only to find out that i have a boyfriend.

    Now the problem is which should i chose. I don't want to hurt my boyfriends feelings but i really want to be with my friend. Can you please help? (be as specific as you can be):confused:
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    Jul 12, 2008, 08:46 AM
    It sounds like you've already made up your mind. Figure out who you really want to be with. If you don't love your current guy (wait, so you guys have only been dating for a week?), then break it off and don't lead him on. Maybe even try being single for a while in between them?
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    Jul 12, 2008, 08:50 AM
    It's strange even my girlfriend had asked this kind of question to a common friend of us.
    So what you are thinking for your boyfriend right now, can you please let me know, so that I can make out the condition of my girlfriend too! Please?? :confused:
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    Jul 12, 2008, 09:56 AM
    First of all don't lead these guys on. You should have a talk with your boyfriend, and see how far your relationship is going to go. If you guys know that it's not going to go very far; take things slow with your best friend and see how things play out.

    I also think you should be honest with your boyfriend about you only being with him because you're sick of being single. Also tell him that you can't be in a relationship where someone important in his life hates you.

    (I always notice that when someone has a boyfriend or girlfriend that's when other people start liking them….temptation.)
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