[music_is_life11]

Well I'm the 8th grader and my boyfriend is going to be a junior. I just want to know do you think its right? Because I know freshman date seniors all the time. We already talked about the sex and making out and stuff and he said he's not going to pressure me to do it and that he can wait 4 all that stuff. He's really nice and funny.
2 of my bffs are twins and my boyfriend is their older brother and I hear that he doesn't do that kind of stuff and says that he really likes me and talks about me all the time and for the past 3 nights my boyfriend and I have had like 2-4 hr conversations on the phone. So I trust him pretty well. So if you cut out the sex part and everything, do you think a junior dating a 8th grader is wrong?

[starfirefly]

What's a junior? Like what age?

[music_is_life11]

whats a junior? like what age?

He's 16 and I'm 13

[starfirefly]

Why not ask your parents what they think

[talaniman]

Sorry, friends is one thing, but a 13 year old dating is another, dating a guy 3 years older is out the question in my view. Parents are that protective especially fathers, which I am one. So sorry, but your parents are the ones to say.

[ScottGem]

I agree that 13 is too young for one on one dating. You can hang with this guy in a group and wait a year or two before you start dating. One on one. A three year gap at your age is pretty wide.