[sibling]

Over 1 1/2 years ago my b/f & I moved to another state hoping financially would be better but things didn't turn out as planned. My boyfriend's co. closed at the end of last year -- Now we're facing foreclosure on a house -- We're working doing something I don't like trying to keep afloat -- not making enough to pay two houses as we had hoped we would -- Should I just forget about the house we're both on mortgage & foreclose on it; move back & start over? If I move back to my state I still won't be able to make enough to help cover the mortgage but I would hopefully have a job I'll enjoy. Then again, my relationship will suffer; although it's already suffering. Or should I continue to struggle & try to make it work; if so, for how long -- don't know how much longer I can endure.

[tgreer00]

The best advice I can give you regarding a foreclosure is to look up the website of DaveRamsey.com. He offers practical advice on all matters financial. I'm sure you can find good advice in some of his archives; or if you're patient enough, you may be able to get through on his daily radio talk show. Good luck. Don't let this financial stuff take your relationship.

[sibling]

Thank you so much for your advice... I was ready to let this financial nightmare take my relationship...