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What is happining with our relationship?
I have been dating this guy for about 3 months, but recently I don't know what's up with him. One of his friends (who I trust) said he was saying he wasn't into me any more one day and he liked me the next. Also he has been more distant from me recently and he is not even holding my hand. I asked him about it but he won't admit any thing is wrong. So please help I don't even know if he's still going out with me. What should I do? :confused:
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Ok I kind of am getting the hint that you're in high school, because this behavior is very immature.. on both parts, getting your facts from someone else and believing them, and him by treating you poorly because he's too afraid to communicate.
Sit him down and be serious, say that things feel different and if you can't resolve your problems then you will leave, he will either straighten up and tell you what's going on or he won't and then you can leave knowing that you're not stuck with an immature non-communicative mate. |
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If you can't talk about it, you don't have a very good relationship, and if he can't reassure your fears, he isn't a very good boyfriend in the first place.
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3 months is about the time you notice if things are REALLY good or not. Sounds like you're noticing they're not. So much pain in life can be avoided by accepting the way people are and responding appropriately without anger. It IS possible to stop dating this guy if he's not right for you withour you two hating each other. It really IS possible.
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There are PLENTY of fish in the sea hunny
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Sorry but it is not even a relationship anyway. 3 Months is not a really long time. If your not happy anymore, maybe this other person is waiting for you to pull the plug and say goodbye. It is up to you whether you want to continue or not, but it does sound like he is changing from what used to be. Do you want that to continue? Like others have said. Sit him down try to have a good communication with him. If it goes no where then you know what to do.
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