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    polska Posts: 33, Reputation: 6
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    Jun 22, 2008, 05:10 PM
    Does anyone else feel this way?
    It's been 11 weeks since I got dumped. Ups and Downs.
    Anyway, I was at the drag races in New Jersey this weekend and saw some couples holding hands and being close with one another. This really tears me apart! So many memories of us makes the pain start all over again. Thoughts of what I said wrong, what I did wrong, WHAT WENT WRONG? etc. etc.
    It's a feeling of total rejection and depression. I do have a ton of things that I'm proud of and am grateful for in my life but I still feel horrible. I miss her so bad all over again.
    I am (for the most part) a pretty confident person but now I'm terrified of possibly facing this pain or rejection in the future again. I don't want to become thick skinned and never fall in love again. I'm afraid to even approach women!
    I lead a very good lifestyle and want to share it with a significant other. How do I cope?
    I feel totally lost. Love has completely taken over and is disabling me.
    I'm sure Tal will have something to say about it but I feel like I lost the one. You know...
    "THE ONE" The ONE that completes your life. That ONE chance that you got and blew it!
    I'm hope a few years from now I'll look back at this and laugh, but for right now it SUCKS!
    Tal, Bigbird, FireFly, Starlite, and the rest of you... You guys are so awesome! Please help! It's been a real horrible day!
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    Jun 22, 2008, 05:15 PM
    Hey hun I feel the xact same way... im in bits.. its normal to feel like that.. you see couples happy and you wonder why that can't be you being happy.. it isn't fair.. and I'm wondering myself will I find anyone else to love me asmuch... it's a horrible feeling but I know what your going threw... add me on msn [email protected]
    Were going threw the same id like to talk more with you :) xxxxx
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    Jun 22, 2008, 05:44 PM
    11 weeks, a little over 2 months after the break up of a 3 year relationship. Your pretty normal so far just reading other posts, you just need to be able to ride out the "storms" we find ourselves in from time to time. It will pass, just keep doing what your doing. Be patient and above all stay busy. When she haunts your thoughts look around at where your at. Don't forget what makes you happy, besides her.
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