[dudeneedsadvice]

Hey my ex contacted me through an online game service w/voice last month and now I hope someone can tell me how she feels.

I emailed her saying she could talk to me through email and she emailed back with some odd comments but generally in a good mood she said she would talk to me later.

So I emailed back the next day and a few days went by and I played with her on the online game service w/voice for about an hour over the weekend. She sent me a new friend request through the service and we had a good time.
That Monday she was on in the game but didn't invite me to play and I didn't invite her either. And according to the log which does catalog all games played it looks like she was on for one short game every hour on the hour after we didn't play together. She then wasn't on the game for 3 days(she's on everyday) and she still hadn't replied to my original email after a week.

Phone calls came to mind so I emailed her a paragraph about how if she wanted to talk with me she should do so by phone. I then gave her my number and times when she could call me, said have a good day, etc.

She replied with an email the same day and this is all she said:

"we dated a long time I know your phone number"

That's it. How should I take that? :confused:

[Wildcat21]

I think as leave me alone. We can game together - that's it. Friend zone.

If she calls - she would have. If some one wants to be with you they would - they would jump thorugh hoops to be with you

QUIT pursuing her. Make her chase you IF she wants to. That which is chased - runs.

If she contacts you again - great - but doesn't sound like, from what you say - she is into you.

[s_cianci]

Take it with a grain of salt. She's an ex for a reason. She may try to contact you again or she may have just wanted someone to play the online game with. If she does contact you again take things slow and easy. Don't press her for anything and don't let her press you for anything. Above all, don't get your hopes up.

[Chery]

You might not want to hear this, but I wholeheartedly agree with Wildcat and s_cianci. See new friends on or off the net, go out more and start a new life. You'll be better off because you'll always have doubts about her and the way she treated you. There will be no true trust and confidence in this relationship, so let it go. You deserve better.

Good luck, and please keep us posted.

In the world in it's state today, avoid as much personal stress as possible - there is enough coming from the 'unknown' around you - therefore make your personal life as comfortable, warm, and trusting as possible.

[fredg]

Hi,
I would take it "with a grain of salt"... old saying meaning that she could be just wanting to be in contact with someone, and picked you.
If she were serious about wanting to get back with you, she would have called you, and set up a time for you two to meet.
Since that didn't happen, then she is just playing with you; why, I have no idea.
I do hope you aren't too upset about it, and will move on with your life. It does take time to get over someone, and you can do it. I do wish you the very best of luck.

[talaniman]

Move on and meet new people,forget the drama!:cool:

[kandy]

Move on if she wanted to be with you she would have called by now