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cfloveu · Jun 5, 2008, 10:21 AM

Well I am 25Years old working for an Investment Banking company.
It was when I was a student, doing my graduation.
Then I just using Internet. Very soon I got someone who spoke to me sweetly. A Girl from Bangkok. We became close friends. And later after some 8 or 9 Months I expressed my feelings to her and said her that I am in love with her. She acccepted my love. We both loved each one very much. She was so caring and loving. She told me everything about her. I believed in all that she said.
I used to bunk my school to chat with her on net. Got very less marks in exams. On weeekends I would enter the cyber in the morning and stayed there for 17 hours, speaking on net and reach my house late at night and get beaten from my parents for staying out for so late and never got food(she had internet connection at home and spoke to me from home). We shared this relation for about 3 1/2 years. I stuggled so much to live without her and without seeing her. Many a times I had shed blood tears thinking about the distance. But one day I decided to meet her. Searched a part time job and saved money. Worked for nights. Sacrificed my sleep and food for her.
Then reached Bangkok (first time I had ever been out of my country). There was this shocking and heart breaking thing for me. She never meet me there. Nor spoke to me when I called her up.I even went to her college. I searched for her, asked people for her by showing her picuture, and asked them if she studies in this college. I even Slept on the road outside the college waiting for her.
But she never turned up. While I was in the airport, I called her up. She only said "Forget me, sam".
Had anyone had such a disaster in their life?

BMI · Jun 5, 2008, 10:37 AM

Can't say that I have friend.

Ummm, perhaps you should consider what drove you to such lenghts for a girl you never met? The phrase jumping in too soon is an understatement here. Try not to confuse love and wow somebody likes me.

Oh and next time think it ALL the way through before you travel the ends of the earth looking for little miss right... whom... you've... never... seen.

Sorry,it must suck.

danielnoahsmommy · Jun 5, 2008, 10:41 AM

Sounds like she s hiding something from you. Perhaps she was trying to save you from hartach

starlite1 · Jun 5, 2008, 10:41 AM

Hi CF,

I am sorry that this happened to you. Obviously she is a cold, uncaring individual. What I suggest, and I know this is hard, is try and forget about her. The fact that she didn't even give you a reason as to why she called it off with you, is very unfair. You need to really look hard at what has happened, and know that you will find someone that will treat you with respect. I suggest you also get together with friends and go out and meet people. Maybe someone from your school?

cfloveu · Jun 5, 2008, 10:47 AM

Originally Posted by starlite1

Hi CF,

I am sorry that this happened to you. Obviously she is a cold, uncaring individual. What I suggest, and I know this is hard, is try and forget about her. The fact that she didn't even give you a reason as to why she called it off with you, is very unfair. You need to really look hard at what has happened, and know that you will find someone that will treat you with respect. I suggest you also get together with friends and go out and meet people. Maybe someone from your school?

I am no more in school now. I am working now. And am in the look out in this site for someone who has been cheated out. Because a broken heart understands another broken heart.
I know she has cheated my pure and honest love. I stayed far from her but always felt her by my side. But...
So I want to make a broken heart as mine now.

talaniman · Jun 5, 2008, 10:50 AM

You went through an awful lot to meet that voice on the other side of the computer, and sorry it was for nothing. That's love though, work your A$$ of and go through hell, and for whatever reason they change their minds.

The Morale: Never give someone, more than you give yourself.

Put that same energy into loving yourself, as you did loving that dream.

Your results should be awesome.

starlite1 · Jun 5, 2008, 11:03 AM

Everyone here has been hurt, and all of our hearts have been broken. We are all trying to heal, it is so hard, I know. The best thing to do right now is talk it all out with us.

cfloveu · Jun 5, 2008, 11:07 AM

Originally Posted by starlite1

Everyone here has been hurt, and all of our hearts have been broken. We are all trying to heal, it is so hard, I know. The best thing to do right now is talk it all out with us.

Starlite : I did do that. Now all I want to do is look for someone who can be mine( a broken heart to be my heart).

starlite1 · Jun 5, 2008, 11:16 AM

I know, CF. And you will find that girl out there. You should take up a hobby, get an interest that you like to do (music, sports, etc), anything to get you out of the house and active. Once you do, you will start feeling better, and who knows? You may meet the girl of your dreams by being active. I would recommend not meeting anyone online right now though (not that you can't find someone nice), but I think if you are going to meet someone, you should meet them face to face. But first, you need to get out there, get into your hobbies, hang out with your friends, go out, and live life and have fun!

cfloveu · Jun 5, 2008, 11:21 AM

Originally Posted by starlite1

I know, CF. And you will find that girl out there. You should take up a hobby, get an interest that you like to do (music, sports, etc), anything to get you out of the house and active. Once you do, you will start feeling better, and who knows? You may meet the girl of your dreams by being active. I would recommend not meeting anyone online right now though (not that you can't find someone nice), but I think if you are going to meet someone, you should meet them face to face. But first, you need to get out there, get into your hobbies, hang out with your friends, go out, and live life and have fun!

Starlite: Why not on this site. All people are not dishonest here. They know what love is and understand it. They have lived with it. If I get someone nice and loving on this site (who is being betrayed by some guy), will it matter to her that we are away and can't have relation?

liz28 · Jun 5, 2008, 11:29 AM

This story is so heart wretching and it so sad you travel outside your country to sleep on roads and search all over for her she was scaming you but it sad had to go there to find out

cfloveu · Jun 5, 2008, 11:32 AM

Originally Posted by liz28

This story is so heart wretching and it so sad you travel outside your country to sleep on roads and search all over for her she was scaming you but it sad had to go ther to find out

I know how I have felt all these days and what I have undergone. But today, here I am looking for someone who have lost her heart and looking for a good and honest heart . Wish I get someone here.

starlite1 · Jun 5, 2008, 11:39 AM

It depends on the person. I see your point, but this is a site for people to help other people. Can two people meet on this site, start as friends and then fall for each other? I wouldn't doubt it at all. But, don't lose site that this is a site for support, not a dating site. If you happen to be talking with someone, and the two of you happen to hit it off, then that is great! But, you need to understand that this isn't a dating site. It is a support site first.

cfloveu · Jun 5, 2008, 11:41 AM

Originally Posted by starlite1

It depends on the person. I see your point, but this is a site for people to help other people. Can two people meet on this site, start out as friends and then fall for each other? I wouldn't doubt it at all. But, don't lose site that this is a site for support, not a dating site. If you happen to be talking with someone, and the two of you happen to hit it off, then that is great! But, you need to understand that this isn't a dating site. It is a support site first.

I would also be a support for someone who needs a support and someone would give me support because I need support.

BMI · Jun 5, 2008, 11:42 AM

WHAT!?

You mean I've been posting answers and questions here and there's little chance I'm going to get something from it?? Nobody told me that when I signed up!

Just kidding, good post Starlight.

starlite1 · Jun 5, 2008, 11:45 AM

Originally Posted by BMI

WHAT!?!?!

You mean I've been posting answers and questions here and there's little chance I'm gonna get something from it???? Nobody told me that when I signed up!!

Just kidding, good post Starlight.

Thanks BMI... and... sorry ;)

damaged · Jun 5, 2008, 11:50 AM

I agree with Starlite...
We have come to this site not looking for someone to get in a relationship with, but to seek advice!. This is what this site is meant for...
Like she said you may find someone and fall in love with that person but that's not the point... If it happens AWESOME, but we're here for support...

cfloveu · Jun 5, 2008, 11:51 AM

Originally Posted by starlite1

Thanks BMI....and...sorry ;)

Starlite: I would tell you something. You never know whom would you meet and what that 'whom' would do in your life. Because there is always a special person in everybody's life. And you never know where you will find that special person.

starlite1 · Jun 5, 2008, 12:01 PM

Originally Posted by cfloveu

I would also be a support for someone who needs a support and someone would give me support because i need support.

You have to offer support first, really share your advice, and your experiences, but do it because you really want to help people, not because you are looking for that 'special someone'. If that is going to happen, it will happen, naturally

cfloveu · Jun 5, 2008, 12:12 PM

Originally Posted by starlite1

You have to offer support first, really share your advice, and your experiences, but do it because you really want to help people, not because you are looking for that 'special someone'. If that is going to happen, it will happen, naturally

I do advice people. There are so many people to whom I have give the best supportive advices
1:how do I get her to open up?
2:In South Dakota do you have to have your parents consent?
3:I've told him I love him. By accident!
4:I'm torn and don't know what to do
And many more posts. And what I always advice them is to understand their love and stick to their true love. And advice them not to think from heart.